My boyfriend and I are distant and I want to know how and what I can do to bring us close?

[Anonymous]

Hey everyone, my boyfriend and i have been distant for a while and it makes me sad. so here is the deal, i’ve been complaining to my boyfriend about him following bikini girls, liking their pictures, DMing them they are pretty for yearssss!!! he doesn’t do those things anymore, but I still bring it up to this day. also he has been DMing this girl since October until November 20th sending her memes. i don’t think that’s a huge big deal but in the same time i do. I want to drop everything and move on from the past because it has created horrible distance between us but i don’t know how to bring us closer together after years of brining this up?

[lightbulb27]

This is a case of uncommitted wandering male. Males like to do what he's doing, feels good to see chicks and get praises from them from they respond. He doesn't understand how damaging that is to your relationship.

Have to communicate, clear the air and re-establish foundation of relationship.

On his side, he's probably tired of being bi! ched at and emotionally shut down but didn't want to quit. Evidence he still messes with this other girl. ... e. g. he's immature and doesn't know how to protect a relationship and/or is not committed a young guy. Even if he's your age, he could still be a selfish idiot.

on your side, you have to decide to accept him as he is and let go of the past.

Spending time together, praying or going to church, doing things that build your relationship and trust... read book together, watch videos and discuss. He doesn't fundamentally understand women... not just you. If he's stuck in porn and these other chicks are his fantasy, then all the worse of a project to cut the "drug addiction". After all, it's just a brain to deal with!

It probably won't be easy because he doesn't sound like he knows what he's doing, it's a process.

[Plugs]

You are so mature. Thank you. I needed that

[Plugs]

Do u think a guy asking to be in relationship with an older women is really In love with her?

[AI Opinion]

My goal here is to sprinkle a little love magic on your situation 😄✨! Trust is like a pair of glasses – crystal clear when maintained but easily smudged. If he’s stopped the behaviors that bothered you, it might be time to clean that lens. Maybe start fresh by planning some fun, no-pressure date nights, focusing on positive communication and expressing your feelings without holding onto past grievances. Keep it light, make room for lovebombing, and who knows, you both might reignite that spark and those butterflies! ❤️🦋

[Anonymous]

How do u look like and him

[Asker]

i am white, 5’4, curly brown hair, nice smile, pretty light brown eyes, brazilian accent. he is 6’0, tan, straight short black hair, brown eyes, good smile

[Opinion Owner]

It’s a big deal. He’s cheating on u. He’s not a loyal man at all

[Opinion Owner]

I bet he makes u pay for a all the dates what a ball less loser

[jahaims]

Move on already