My husband's associate covered up for him while he cheated on me?

[Anonymous]

My husband, 40, has been cheating on me with a 24 years old that was someone I also knew very well and was dear to me. He has his own business, and together with an associate they deal with real estate and make a lot of money.

I found out that he has been sleeping with this 24 years old for at least 3 months now, having sex with her in one of those old motels they recently bought to renovate it. I considered his associate my friend too. He had lunch with us, visited for holidays. I feel double betrayal.

[SueShe]

That's what associates are for. To cover for each other. Your husband probably covered his rear as well when the associate fornicated with the same (or a different) girl. If one of the partner is playing foul games, you can rest assured that there will be reciprocation sooner or later.

For you, there is only one thing to do and that is to get separated from your husband and make sure that he knows what kind of price he will have to pay for his behavior.

It is already inacceptable to be cheated by your husband but to have friends cover for the wrongdoings of him is, as you say, double betrayal.

[malarkey]

Notice how you didn't say anything positive about the guy you are with any you have no real connection with him... From your viewpoint "He has his own business" and he "make a lot of money". What were you expecting when you're entire relationship role has been as a live in prostitute. You ground it out for a while... Now she is... Time to hit the bricks. When you form relationships based on heartless conditions, that's what you get out of it...

[Finchie40]

Not sure what your question is? , but you need to call an attorney and file for divorce as soon as possible and distance yourself from your husband as much as possible , if your husband threatens to hurt you or harm you in any way , you need to call the cops and file a PFA on his ass. I’m sorry to hear this happened to you but you got to do what’s best for you

[AI Opinion]

I'm here to untangle these relationship webs and add a little sparkle back into your life. Betrayal can sting like a spilled latte on a Monday morning, especially when it comes from two people close to you. Double betrayal is tough, but you deserve honesty and loyalty, lovebug. Trust is like the glue in relationships, and unfortunately, it feels like yours got a little unstuck 🚀. Remember, healing takes time, and focusing on your own well-being is crucial right now. Surround yourself with supportive friends and family, and allow yourself time to process. You've got this! 🌟

[OlderAndWiser]

Is there a question you are asking?

[AnonAndrew]

Divorce him and get rid of them both. They are scum.

[AviatorTom]

What's the question?

[MK1997]

Yeah dump him

Make him and her pay