So long story short I was talking to this guy for a long time and we finally decided to meet and go on a trip together on the last day on the drive back I ended up finding out he was married obviously I feel disgusted with myself since I never wanted to be that type of person who would do something like that but it happened now I'm debating on whether I should tell his wife is it my place even I don't know I think she deserves to know but I don't know if I should be the one to tell her I mean I am the one he cheated on her with. Also I don't know if this makes a difference but we never actually had sex I'm a virgin and said I wasn't ready which he understood turns out that was the best decision I've ever made I can imagine how I'd feel if I actually let him have sex with me. I did do other things with him like cuddles handjobs and a bj plus kissing other than that I feel it was mostly emotional cheating he did with me but honestly I don't know what to do , do I tell her or do I just leave it alone like I have I no longer talk to him for obvious reasons but I just need help with what I should do.
Most Helpful Guy
You don't. when you seek out trouble, you'll find it.
If you left a bad situation, you don't go back to it.0
Most Helpful Girl
no!!! how dare u decide to damage the lives of all who r involved in that mess. what gives u the right to even ask if u should tell his wife!! no!! no! this isn't a r. v. show its a real family life!! yes he is a dirtbag, which makes u a dirtbag to a certain extent. I mean u r young and have little wisdom from life; he chose u for a reason. they have predatory habits. but no u don't get to stir that pot!!! u feel disgusted good u at least can distinguish from good and bad. I would leave him far far from your circle of friends and mind your own distinctions with yourself instead of finding self worth in somedirtbag that has his own disfunctions0