Most Helpful Guy
You don't. when you seek out trouble, you'll find it.
If you left a bad situation, you don't go back to it.
Most Helpful Girl
no!!! how dare u decide to damage the lives of all who r involved in that mess. what gives u the right to even ask if u should tell his wife!! no!! no! this isn't a r. v. show its a real family life!! yes he is a dirtbag, which makes u a dirtbag to a certain extent. I mean u r young and have little wisdom from life; he chose u for a reason. they have predatory habits. but no u don't get to stir that pot!!! u feel disgusted good u at least can distinguish from good and bad. I would leave him far far from your circle of friends and mind your own distinctions with yourself instead of finding self worth in somedirtbag that has his own disfunctions