Why am I jealous when I know he loves me?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend has a customer across the country that will text him now and then about movies etc. It makes me uncomfortable and we've talked about it. He reassured me he just responds to stay friendly and milk her for the sales (more business, more money) And that when she's no longer his customer, there will be no more texts. I believe him and I trust him.

How can I feel less jealous when I know this is his job? He takes care of me, thinks I'm the most beautiful woman he's seen, he loves me so much. I have no reason to be jealous. He has female friends and I am ok with that, but his customer seems to overstep.

[Finchie40]

It’s normal to feel jealous at times especially when you really love and care about someone and you don’t want to lose them , or you don’t want them to do something that will jeopardize your relationship with them. So if you get a little jealous here and there , that is normal feelings , but if you are overly jealous and insecure. then you are best to go see a therapist and find out why you are overly jealous and insecure and found out what is causing you to feel that way , because the truth is , how can you be happy in a relationship , if you are overly jealous and insecure about the person you chose to be in a relationship with? Sadly You will never be happy , if that’s the case. So the best thing for you to do is to focus on yourself and continue loving the way you want to be loved in return , that’s all you can do , because , we can’t force anyone to love us and to choose us , all we can do is choose them the same way you hope that they choose you , So if your boyfriend truly loves you , he is choosing you , not that customer , I am sure your boyfriend isn’t going to ruin what he has with you , so don’t worry about that customer whatsoever , your boyfriend is clearly choosing you over her. If he wasn’t? You wouldn’t know anything about her , if someone is going to cheat? They are going to cheat and keep it a secret as much as possible , so the fact that your boyfriend truly loves is reassuring you that you have nothing to worry about is a positive thing. If your boyfriend was getting mad at you and yelling at you saying you are jealous and insecure , then that’s a red flag to be cautious about , but by him being upfront and honest and loving to you , you have really nothing to worry about. I am sure your boyfriend gets a little jealous at times when you are talking to another guy that he senses that wants more than friendship with you. The key to a happy relationship is to always wear your partners’ shoes the same way you want them wearing yours’ Make him a priority and he more than likely will make you his , if not? Then he isn’t the guy for you

[AviatorTom]

Jealousy is a natural emotion. There's nothing wrong, and something right, about being a bit jealous. The important thing is to not let it overwhelm you and your relationship. Sounds like you have it under control. Best wishes.

[PeachyPie93]

You posted this before.. just go on his phone block and delete her number and the chat if it is that big a deal LOL

[Anonymous]

This might help.

[Asker]

I love that quote. Thank you for sharing.

[AI Opinion]

Hey love! Jealousy can be a sneaky little' devil, even when we know deep down that there's nothing to worry about. First off, it's completely normal to feel this way. You're protective of what you cherish, and that's a testament to how much you care. Try focusing on the trust you have in him and the love you share. When that green-eyed monster pops up, remind yourself of the wonderful foundation you've built together. It's all about redirecting your energy towards the positives instead of feeding those pesky insecurities. 💕 You're not alone in this, and you've got this in the bag! 😊

[ehatsham_hussain]

This is most common problems in ladies ,
You aren't alone.

[HoldingtheSword]

You should read an encyclopedia on this subject

[jahaims]

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