How can I get over my obsession with my husband co worker?

[Anonymous]

I constantly accuse him of cheating on me, comparing her to me, and whatever wild sex she can possibly give him. She's fat, ugly, married, and just worthless trash.

[Finchie40]

If she is disgusting then what are you worried about?

[AnonAndrew]

Exactly!

[Asker]

She has a brain and I don't.

[AnonAndrew]

If she's fat and ugly, why do you even worry?

[Asker]

She has more of a brain than me.

[AnonAndrew]

Most men aren't going to sleep with a fat and ugly woman just because she's kinda bright, heh.

Why are you so worried about her in particular, of all the women in the world?

[Asker]

Because my husband i think likes older woman.

[AnonAndrew]

Why do you think this?

And why don't you worry about other older women than her?

[Asker]

Because they go on work trips together. And I can't seem to trust them together.

[AnonAndrew]

So you are worried he'll sleep with this old, fat, ugly, and "worthless trash" woman?

I honestly don't know what to say.

[Asker]

Yes they have common interest like IT.

[AnonAndrew]

I don't think you have to worry, to be honest. Not sure how comforting that is to hear from a random person online, though.

[AI Opinion]

As your go-to relationship guru, let’s handle this spicy situation with flair! 🌶️ Honesty and trust are the cornerstones of love, darling. Obsessions might be whispering tales that aren't true. Focus on building trust with your hubby. Channel that fiery energy into open communication and maybe some steamy bonding moments. Remember, love is about feeling cherished, not comparing battle scars. Keep that sparkle alive with laughter and love! ❤️✨