Anonymous(18-24)10 moone girl he is serious about
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one girl he saw more like a temporary weakness
one girl he plans a future with
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one girl doesn't see at all just wanted a fun time
one girl he understands and gets along with romantically and socially
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one girl who helps the guy relax and escape sexually
but can't do nothing else for him
one girl that meant nothing
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one girl that literally is his everything
one girl he can easily let go and give up (lust)
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one girl he can't be without and desperately needs because it's love12 Reply- 10 mo
I don't understand why can't I be the girl. Thank you for this. 😢
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10 mothis is what i think
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Ah, the tangled web of love! 😅 Sounds like he's juggling more hearts than a circus clown! Being involved with a married woman and another puts him on a slippery slope of trust and emotions. Love is great, but clarity is king! Balancing multiple hearts usually leads to heartbreak. It's like trying to dance on two boats; eventually, you'll fall into the water! Love genuinely, but love wisely! 💕
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u 10 moI believe that anyone who thinks they love two people at the same time does not have the same definition for "love" that I use.
"Love" means I trust you, I respect you. I want you, I hope you want me. . . for the rest of our lives. . . not for 50% of the rest of our lives.22 Reply- 10 mo
You can be very attracted to two people at a time, but that's not love! Love is a choice. Love says, "I choose you today, and I shall continue to choose you in the future when neither of us is so attractive anymore." Love says, "I'll be there for you when times are tough, through poverty, through illness, through problems with our children, and that commitment is rock-solid! I'm there for you not just in the good times." If you aren't ready to make that commitment to someone, you're not really in love.
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@Keyboardkat Absolutely! And not ""I'll be there for you half the time when times are tough, through poverty, through illness, through problems with our children, . . ."
1.9K opinions shared on Relationships topic. It's possible to love 2 people at once but it'd probably be messy af lol
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So should you knowing hurt someone that painfully
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@IWILLPLEASEYOU doesn't have to be hurtful. a lot of couples are happy in open relationships
4.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic. He is a selfish guy that those girls’ should run the other way from
00 Reply7.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. He's crazy and awful human being who deserves neither of them
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10 moFirst of all, what the hell is he doing with a married woman? She's married. She's not available to him. She is committed by a solemn vow to another man! What does he think he's doing? What if she reconciles with her husband? Where does that leave this guy then? Does she have children? What about them? Believe me, you DON'T want to be the guy she's with when her husband finds out! And with all the baggage she's carrying, do you REALLY want to mix in there? And SHE has no business dating him, either! She's NOT for you! For heaven's sake stick to women who are actually available to you!
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Yep she has a child with her husband and apparently she just told her husband the truth about the affair. The guy is hoping that she will choose him over her husband and she just might. Which leaves the other woman feeling like a fool for dealing with him.
- 10 mo
This clown sounds like a real winner! Some women just really know how to pick fine, upstanding guys (not)!
9.1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. It means he is a living, breathing human-being. I know I love my husband, my girlfriend and all my other close friends as well. We are all capable of loving many people.
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I’m assuming you mean a married man who has a lover.
I highly doubt he is still in love with his wife if he has strong feelings for the lover. He may feel love for the wife but he won’t be in love with her anymore. But like all married men, they’re soft, they will never leave their wives because they are pathetic. They only run to someone else to get their b@lls emptied as the wife isn’t doing it for him.00 Reply- 1.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
10 moIt's too much work to juggle to many women's at once. That is to draining mentally and physically.
10 Reply If I read this right and he's cheating with someone else's wife the only thing I have to say, is I hope this comes out and he loses half his crap in a divorce. He doesn't deserve to pick, and he doesn't deserve to be happy.
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You mean she loses half her crap in a divorce. The guy is with a married woman and the husband is unaware of what is going on.
- 10 mo
This pisses me off so fucking much! Why is it so hard for people not to be nasty sluts to people who love them? If I got cheated on, I'd blame both of them! Just because she's the one cheating doesn't change the fact that the guy she's doing it with doesn't care about how much he hurts you either. Cheating in my opinion is sociopathic behavior.
10 moIf the he's with a married woman she is cheating so is doing the same thing.
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10 moI think his love has no value, a man that can’t honor a commitment or knows what he wants has no business leading in a relationship. He probably doesn’t even love himself.
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10 moIt may sound fun at first, but he’s going to end up hurting them both
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10 moI am aware several social reasons it is unacceptable but t. b. h. i actually feel admiration for his success,
to get close with both... but he must choose and stop cheating, i hope leave the married FOR HER SPOUSE!
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10 moIf you can't find one Woman that is the best thing to ever be in love with then 2 part sharing will never be enough for either one
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10 moHe's just like me.
00 ReplyI can't imagine that both women know about this or are okay with it. To me, the guy is just being bad and cheating on one or even both women.
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10 moHe's a terrible person, I could possibly get being torn between 2 single women, but a married woman bing involved is a hard no.
00 Reply1.6K opinions shared on Relationships topic. He's not in love with both women. If he loved one of them, he wouldn't be with another at the same time. Who would have consideration for her feelings. He's just a manipulative piece of shit.
10 ReplyAwful human being.
I got this type of man never finds me.00 ReplyIf both women are perfectly happy with the situation it's fine, basically I'm jealous of the guy because I couldn't keep two women happy like that,,,
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10 moFuck that. You can't be "in love" with two people. Dude is coping hard.
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Anonymous(30-35)10 moAnyone who dates a person who is in another relationship as the side piece, is a piece of garbage. The person who is two timing is a piece of crap human to cheat but a person who enables it is even worse.
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m 10 mothat...
is not love10 Reply
10 moI just hope the husband of the married woman finds out and makes her homeless.
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10 moHe is playing with fire, but this is how Chad rolls.
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10 moI think he's doing the best he can given all the temptations
00 ReplyThat would be a tough situation. How to choose?
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10 moOk if all three are ok with it. If not it’s not cool.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)10 moIf you believe that then I have a bridge to sell you.
00 Replyit's not acceptable, but not nice before marriage and without commitment then fine
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10 moHe’s just a cheater who can’t make up his mind. Nothing more.
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10 moHe is for the streetssssss
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10 moSucks to be him
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10 moI will break marriage contracts it's wrong
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Funny how we are still love and hurt someone even sounds like a cruel thing to do?
My wife has a side guy. It's no biggie.
00 Reply6.8K opinions shared on Relationships topic. This guy is an asshole.
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Anonymous(25-29)10 mosweet jesus you still can't get over hiim?
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I am over him. He has stated to me recently that he still loves me and misses me. He's not over me.
Opinion Owner10 mothat is messed up...0
11K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I think it’s really bad scumbag
00 ReplyTerrible
10 ReplyI think he is committing adultery.
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10 moI hate men I wish I was born a girl
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10 moI think it's wrong and stupid
00 Replyit’s 💩 thing to.
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10 moShould choose , virgin
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10 mododgy and trashy
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10 moHe's trash.
10 Reply 779 opinions shared on Relationships topic. He’s a cad
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