Would you ever trust your partner again if you caught him or her in the act of cheating?

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For me, that is a no.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

No, cheating is a big No for me , and an instant break up , I lose all respect and trust for a girl that cheats on me , i separated from my wife when I saw text messages on her phone from a co worker that wanted to bang her , she claims she didn’t cheat on me that he was just crossing the line with her. At the time I wasn’t listening to a word she said I just told her to leave and that I need time apart. So she ended up leaving , she begged for me back and I wouldn’t give her another chance for quite sometime , other things were occurring with her and i at that time as well so it was just added fire. During our separation she was trying to prove to me she didn’t cheat and I started to believe her but unfortunately the trust I once had for her isn’t the same. So her and I told her it’s going to take time for me to trust her again , so we are just friends’ right now but my love for her isn’t the same whatsoever. So I don’t know what’s going to happen on top of that she suffers from mental illness and that’s another reason I am not giving into her. i still love and care about her but i am no longer in love with her. I been open to meeting other girls’ and she knows i am because i am nothing but honest with her , she is just choosing not to walk to other way hoping i will give her another chance

jahaims · Accepted Answer

I have self respect. They wouldn't be my partner after the first time

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

Was it a one-time impulsive act or a prolonged affair? Was it primarily physical or deeply emotional? The circumstances of the infidelity can significantly impact the level of hurt and the potential for forgiveness.

Vesuvius87 · Accepted Answer

Nope. Just finding out you got cheated on would be enough to get them out of your life. Cheating has no value in a relationship.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

I'm here to navigate the rocky terrains of matters of the heart, and trust is a tricky little beast, isn’t it? If you've caught your partner in the act, it's like a betrayal bomb exploded. For most, it’s a big red flag waving hello 👋. But hey, every love story's different! Some people manage to rebuild trust over time, but it requires serious heart-to-heart communication, commitment, and more patience than waiting for the next season of your favorite show. Remember, it’s your happiness that matters most! 😊💔

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SteveSmith1985 · Answer

No, Trusting my partner again would be far from my mind. But the answer is a very strong "no."

ShellyB · Answer

No, we would never sleep under the same roof again.

AviatorTom · Answer

Probably yes, I'd trust my partner, especially if it was a one-time thing.

Cormac995 · Answer

Nope, dead relationship and all love is gone replaced by betrayal rage and hate. This is such a hard and fast rule for me that if my SO cheated and I only found out when she was dying with cancer I'd leave her to die alone on the spot and act like we never had anything at all because the moment you cheat every kiss, every promise, every I love you, every time you cuddled and made love was all a cruel lie. At that point I want you to suffer because that's what I'll be doing the rest of my life and you will be left on your own with an IV.

Miristheiss · Answer

I'd dump them and they'd be dead to me. Never have anything to do with them ever again.

That act is irredeemable. You are tainted for life, you can never come back from that. Even if you were the most devoted, loyal, giving, loving, selfless person for the rest of your life... it wouldn't matter. You'd be putrid and diseased to me, I couldn't ever look at them again, they'd disgust me for life.

Irredeemable.

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

No, that trust would be broken. Out, he would have showed his values and priorities, and I'm not staying for that.

alice55 · Answer

would lose feeling if I watched him cheating

PrincessC16 · Answer

Caught in the act, hell no that would be traumatizing.

EmmaMary · Answer

NO ... ABSOLUTELY NOT .

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Absolutely not!! I need to be able to trust her! Cheating shows she CAN'T be trusted!

Cristi019 · Answer

No chance in hell. The damage is done, there's no turning back. I couldn't even look at her.

Anonymous · Answer

I'll give them an opportunity to come clean first and if they fail that test, goodbye

fish5505_87 · Answer

Tricky, too many variables in relationships, In general, no

LiamJHayden · Answer

Whether caught in the act or not, cheating is a one-and-done.

msc545 · Answer

Nope, and at the point I discover it, they are gone.

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Caught in the act is more dramatic, but substantially no different than when you find out

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe I would give her another chance, I'm a forgiving person.

NathanDavis · Answer

it would not make sense to do so, so... no

WhitneySnow · Answer

That would be very difficult

Agape93 · Answer

Nope. They'll be lucky to survive it

thegreenyogi · Answer

Never. You did it once. You'll do it again.

sawno · Answer

Nope, its over at that point.

NoDecision · Answer

No fucking way, and not fucking how!

loveyouoak · Answer

If I'm desperate I'll trust him.

Razp_Sorbet · Answer

Absolutely not

Anonymous · Answer

Nope , they’re gone asap

exitseven · Answer

I guess not

Staximus · Answer

Hell no

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