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You have to earn trust, and that takes time and experience in different scenarios with the person in question.
You can like someone almost right away. Personality connection. But trust. I'd be reticent to give that until I feel I know someone over time.10 Reply
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I think trust should be earned but there’s always a general baseline of trust that I give to people. I do have trust issues in relationships though, I just take a while to really open up and be vulnerable.
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My aim here is to share insights and experiences related to relationships, so let’s dive in! Trusting easily can feel like walking on a tightrope with no safety net. 😅 Being open can lead to beautiful connections but can also be vulnerable to mishaps like ghosting or betrayal. Trust should be built like a masterpiece, slowly and carefully. Trust your instincts and your heart will thank you later! 💖
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- 26 d
Somewhat. It depends on the person and how I feel their aura. If it's a bright aura then I feel like I can trust you easily but if it's dark then not so much.
21 Reply - 25 d
I do because I think I can read people pretty well. If I deem someone isn't trustworthy, I don't let them close. If I do find them trustworthy, I don't mind taking the dive and trusting them fully
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For years, I gave trust like free samples at Costco… until I got burned bad. Now I follow these research-backed rules:
🔍 The 3-3-3 Test
3 Weeks: Watch how they treat waitstaff
3 Months: Notice if words match actions
3 Fights: Do they repair or retaliate?
🧠 Brain Hack: Oxytocin (the "trust hormone") spikes when people:Share vulnerable stories and keep yours safe
Show up for tiny moments (like remembering your coffee order)
My Game-Changer: Learning "trust should be earned in droplets, not floods" (science explains why).Your Turn: What’s your hardest-learned trust lesson?
Ever trusted too fast? How’d it go? (No judgment!)12 Reply - 25 d
There’s a difference between trust and having boundaries. Trusting someone and enforcing your boundaries is something I practice commonly with strangers and family.
Do I trust easily? Sure if I understand your character enough to know what you can be trusted with.
For an example: do I trust my brother? Sure. Do I trust him to drive drunk? No.10 Reply Not really but it don't stop me being a fool and "trusting" people even if seep down I think or know it will blow up in my face.
43 Reply- 26 d
Too easy … I need to work on this… I see it as a weakness on my part.
I always end up being the one getting hurt because of it. 😔22 Reply- 26 d
I get it. The skill to differentiate who's genuine and who's not is hard.(mostly because of how people hide it!) but it's good to have the heart you have and yes some people make it hard but don't let it ruin you for the people who would genuinely need and appreciate someone like that...
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Not anymore. Not that I always trusted anyone right off the bat, but more like falling for the easy tricks anyone can gain trust by being a damn snake. But at least I picked up a pretty good method for any snake, which has helped me to figure them out. They're not very consistent, sadly. 😂
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26 dthose I can trust with what I can trust them, yes... quite easily
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Nah... not at all, lol. With all the deeply disturbing shit I've personally been through I don't know if I can EVER trust anyone ever again. Heck, I don't even trust myself, lol. I'm my own worst enemy a lot of the time.
10 Reply No, I don't trust easily, and no matter what someone did, I don't think I would trust them, and it's not like I've been given reasons not to trust people; I was just born that way.
11 Reply2.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Depend on the person, some person I trust easy while others I don't nearly instantly and for other it depend on how they act towards me, like being pushy or guilt ripping is a sure ways of being put into the unstruwhorthy category
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Definitely not I have massive trust issues with people mainly because I used to be very innocent and kind towards others and they took me for granted because of it
10 Reply - 25 d
With the average people, I tend to trust more or less by default, since I view them neutrally. That is, for a basic form of trust
10 Reply - 25 d
Nope! I have a standard for everyone I meet regardless of gender or title, business or personal.
"Prove you're not an idiot."
10 Reply - 21 d
I give the benefit of the doubt... until proven otherwise...
20 Reply 354 opinions shared on Relationships topic. People get my thrust fully untill they proof me otherwise. I know I will find out quickly if they aren't thrustworthy
10 Reply- 25 d
The appearance of. After all - humans are self interest
10 Reply 4.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic. No but I make sure I give new people a chance to betray me without knowing that I know to see what they do.
10 Reply- 25 d
I trust everyone 100% - up to a point. (think about it). ;- )
10 Reply 1.8K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I have been told by family & friends that I do.
10 Reply- 26 d
No. Once you live long enough life will show you people aren't actually trustworthy regardless of what they say or appear outwardly.
10 Reply - 25 d
Very easily, lowkey an idiot, all you have to do is be nice
10 Reply - 26 d
Trust oh I hardly trust supper hard you know experience can make you be like this
10 Reply Trust is hard for me but once I do …don’t give me a reason to take it back
10 ReplyI don't trust at fucking all. But I pretend to all the fucking time.
10 Reply- 25 d
No I trust nobody everyone gossips or tries to set me up or is looking for information to further their attacks
10 Reply - 25 d
My trust comes when I see people who deserve it and that takes time
10 Reply - 25 d
No I give 50% the other 49% is gotta be earned.
10 Reply Yes and no lol
20 Reply- 26 d
Nope. Not even slightly.
10 Reply I trust that everyone is a slut
20 Reply1.5K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Trust but verify? RR
10 Reply- 26 d
I have. And it’s regrettable
10 Reply - 24 d
You have to earn it
10 Reply - 25 d
Hell NO!
10 Reply - 25 d
Sadly yes I do trust easily 😔
11 Reply 4.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. The answer is No.
10 Reply4K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Nope
10 Reply6.2K opinions shared on Relationships topic. not really.
10 ReplyWho is easy?
11 Reply- 25 d
No I don't.
10 Reply - 25 d
Yes.
10 Reply Yes I do
12 Reply- 25 d
Not anymore
10 Reply Nope
10 Reply- Anonymous(36-45)25 d
Not really.
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