Have you ever had an unrequited love?

[Anonymous]

If yes - How did you feel?

What's the best way to deal with unrequited love?

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[Anonymous]

Like Mr. Miyagi once said, "best block, no be there".

The best way to avoid unrequited love is to NEVER allow it to take hold. I am a firm believer in you ONLY match a woman's energy. In the words of Ludacris, "when I move you move, just like that". Only match a woman's energy and NEVER allow yourself to get unless she does. There are 4 billion women on the planet. There will be another one along, just like a bus. All you gotta do is wait.👍

[Asker]

I know, but I'm waiting for a very long time...

[Opinion Owner]

Patience my man, patience. I understand where you're coming from. But you have to understand most women feel the same way. Women have chosen to make this process difficult. You didn't make the rules. You're just playing the game. And unfortunately, it IS a game.

[Asker]

True, but I have been patient my whole miserable life, it's too difficult.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm older than you man. I've been waiting longer. I'm OK with it. You're putting your anticipation in a quality that doesn't exist really. Very few women will ever love you even if they date you. When you REALIZE this you won't look at women with such hopeful eyes as you do. Most women today despise men. Don't waste your energy pining for that. I understand where you're coming from man. I was that guy once as well. You need to metaphorically dig a hole and BURY that hope. Trust me, you'll be a lot happier once you do.

[Asker]

I see... ok, I understand, and I'll try. Thanks for the support 👍

[Opinion Owner]

No problem. Just remember there are good women out there. But they are very rare. You cannot put that on you. You haven't failed. You're looking for something that's rare. Don't blame yourself for most women being the way they are. Just remember most of those women are more unhappy then you are right now. Being in a relationship should NOT be your goal. Building a happy life should be your goal. That will automatically attract the right woman. And even if it doesn't you still haven't failed.

[serious]

Means one sided love from my end? No, nothing like that has ever happened.

[jennifer_bloom]

I usually liked guys that were out of my league so I had a normal rejection rate when I was looking for a boyfriend in my college days, but there was at least one rejection that I kept hoping I could change, I did not repeatedly contact the man but he was on my mind a lot.

[Abbycado]

No, can’t say that I have.

[Asker]

Lucky you...

[Asker]

So how to deal with it, any advice?

[Abbycado]

Having never dealt with it, I think my advice would be shit.

[Asker]

Come on, you always have a good advice :)

[Abbycado]

Drown your sorrows in a plate of this…

[Asker]

Great advice, thanks :D 👍

[Abbycado]

Ty for delicious fettuccine alfredo!

[Asker]

You're welcome :D

[AI Opinion]

I'm here to help you tap into your inner relationship guru! 😎 Dealing with unrequited love can feel like an emotional rollercoaster, just like having a mega-crush on the new celebrity in town who doesn’t know you exist. It's heartbreaking but totally normal. To handle it, focus on self-care and set healthy boundaries. Invest energy into friendships and hobbies. Who knows? You might just find a new passion or friendship that's even better than daydreaming about that hottie who doesn't feel the same! 🥰 Keep an open heart, but protect it, too. 💓

[Anonymous]

All the time. It feels like shit when you either have to deal with them regularly, or if the interest was at one point mutual and the other started retracting.

[Nikki1989]

You don't deal with it, simple. Men are a dime-a-dozen, no big deal, you just meet someone else. They are not difficult to find.

[Asker]

It's easier for girls I guess...

[exitseven]

yes. it was really pretty sad. I thought that it was something it was not.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

Definitely a few times yes.

[FunkyMonkee]

I have no idea what it means.

[PaleDale]

Everyone does sooner or later