Do you think men and women who travel for work remain faithful?

Question

I don’t think so because I certainly can’t if I’m gone for more than two to three days. I I’ve traveled for work conference and training and I’ve been with my male coworkers.

Miristheiss · Accepted Answer

I don't care.

I would never have dated or committed to any woman who travels or put us into a "long distance" situation. So that isn't anything I'd accept in my life.

I really do not care about her job. I don't give a shit about her climbing ladders or getting more pay. If they offer more pay for travel, turn it down. If they require it? I don't care, quit and go find another job.

If she takes a job and starts traveling, I know for a fact I'm not going to be happy in that relationship and that is a thing I won't accept in my life so I'd just end it.

I don't care is my answer to the question because I'd never even let that scenario into my life. If she starts to add travel for work to our lives then I walk away. She isn't the one for me.

More of this feminism, career is her purpose shit bubbling up again. Women treating their job with such importance that it moves ahead of her family. Family takes a back seat to her boss and her job.

Zack-Bann · Accepted Answer

So you can’t go 3 days without your partner before you’re willing to cheat on him?
It’s not the work trip clearly there’s a larger issue there

I think faithfulness is either in someone’s nature or it isn’t
The work trip doesn’t trigger the urge to cheat
That urge needs to be there all along
The trip gives opportunity

But then I read most of these replies and it seems like work trips are in fact a breeding ground for infidelity

It’s a shame.
I’m single but my last work trip was with a gorgeous female coworker I have and she’s married
If I knew it was fair game I might have taken the opportunity…

(I’m being ironic. Adultery is not my style. I much rather find a single woman while being single myself and do things without guilt)

Genie23 · Accepted Answer

They can remain faithful all their life and they do if they truly love their partner and respect them. They wouldn't do anything to ruin the relationship and everything they built together just to have some fling with someone random.

EmmaMary · Accepted Answer

I certainly pity your poor husband... That's if you even have one of course. smh It's women like you, that give the honest, decent and faithful ones such appalling and disgusting names. smh

Rosexøxø · Answer

Yeah on the title alone my answer was

“no… I don’t think so.” And then I read the context in the question and after the surprise of it, yeah… my answer is the same. Just seems like a chance to do trouble. Too much of a tease. Like teacher leaving class room. Just seems like the chance to not be serious and never get caught or reprimanded. So maybe some portion of them plan not to cheat, and love their partner, but the idea of forbidden and no one knows seems to just take away the integrity. I would hope I’m wrong though. Real relationships need more reliability. Trust. And commitment.

Finchie40 · Answer

Some do some don’t , just the way it goes , I knew a girl that cheated when her husband went away on business trips , so it isn’t always the partner leaving that is up to no good , the person at home can be just as bad

AviatorTom · Answer

Most do, some don't. There's definitely more opportunity, and temptation, to cheat.

st8gangsta · Answer

Depends on the man or woman. I've seen examples in my life that was faithful as all fuck. But I've also seen people like you that can't last 3 days and are so desperate for attention or sex that they cheat ASAP or whenever the opportunity is there.

See you're either ruled by your genitals or addiction to attention (maybe both), but some people are ruled by values that are above that. I'm not saying you're good or bad, I'm just saying you don't value fidelity more than scratching the itch in your pants or to feed your ego. You value one set of things more than the other, but not all people are like you. Try not to take that personally and shit, I'm just making an observation by what you said.

Orion84 · Answer

I've traveled for work, and never had a problem with staying faithful.

Just because some people will cheat, doesn't mean that everyone will. If someone's a cheater, then they're going to find a way to do it, anyway, whether they travel or not.

adventurous-1 · Answer

each person is different in their outlook on life, relationships, and fidelity. Being a man over being a woman doesn't play into it as much as a persons beliefs and commitment to their spouse. Some people cheat, seems they can't help themselves where others are faithful and remain so throughout their marriage. If there are flaws in the marriage then many things including travel contribute to the dynamics of their cheating, where with others they believe that marriage is secrete and would never betray their vows. It boils down to if it's in their nature or not. There are many who don't travel who cheat whenever the opportunity arises and they take advantage of the situation to be unfaithful, it's just who they are rather then where they are.

beenherebefore · Answer

I travel for work, literally every week sometimes I have to stay away for up to a week or even more and never cheated on my partner. Cheating doesn't have to do with the type of job you do it has to do with your values. I'm sure some people see traveling and being away from their partner as a great opportunity to get laid tho.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

I used to travel on occasion for work. Never once cheated on my then fiancé. My fiancé who pretty much never travelled beyond family trips did however find time to cheat close to home. Which is similar to what a lot of Servicemen come home to discover after being deployed.

Bricealan · Answer

@thelovelywoman You are right. I have had sex with co-workers, while in the office and outside in the car, with someone who was in a relationship out side of work, and have read accounts of it.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

In Sweden they apparently have the „1000 km rule“ - when you are at least a 1000 kms away from home, you are practically considered single. 🙄

HelpfulGirlll · Answer

Infidelity is a personal choice, not determined by gender or travel.

WhitneySnow · Answer

I think most do. And I’m sorry if you can’t two or three days without cheating on your partner.

Caroline91 · Answer

My husband travels for work a lot. I've never doubted him.

PeachyPie93 · Answer

I have gone years apart from a partner and never cheated.. so to only last 3 days shows how much of a sleeze ball and an empty person you really are.

Shiprex · Answer

That admission says enough about you that you're not loyal and capable of self control. Perhaps you should avoid being in relationships until you've grown up and recognise the harm you're causing others by behaving this way

RavVid · Answer

I don't think so as women have told me they look around on the first day. I've only known one guy to do so.

molonski2 · Answer

I have a LOT of experience with this. Well , if male and going to Asia/ China = NEVER impossible , and for the rest both male and female probably around 81.3% stray.

FreyaRed · Answer

I could because casual sex has much less value for me than proving myself I can be different than others. However I'm sure lot of people will exploit any opportunity.

RohitDr · Answer

I believe most of them remains loyal If they truly love each other although exceptions are always there

Nikki1989 · Answer

This post certainly says more about you than anyone else.

Pohjolan · Answer

You  can.  You just choose not to. Also they either are cheaters or they are not. How often they travel will just affect the amount. Not whether they do it or not.

DrPepper12 · Answer

I think travel occupations lends itself to more opportunity & temptations so I won't put a number on it but anything less than half would surprise me.

SolitarySolace · Answer

Men are more faithful and loyal than women. Women tend to need to feel emotionally and physically connected with someone so they’re more likely to cheat on their partner.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

That depends on the place where one travels to. Saudi Arabia = easy Thailand = it's... ''complicated'' :D

avery58 · Answer

You can't keep your legs closed and respect your partner for 3 days?

exitseven · Answer

I travelled quite a bit when I was younger. I had somebody in every city I worked. Of course this was before I was married.

Lynn2001 · Answer

Not if he is truly committed which doesn’t apply to a lot of people

Anonymous · Answer

Sounds like a you problem.. As in you're not capable of keeping your legs closed. Unlike most women, men understand a thing called loyalty.. Disgusting..

Blackcat1952 · Answer

For the woman who was asking this question. How in the hell can one answer that she must be cheating . Well it would have to be fifty fifty of many women And. MeN. . But Hey, get ready.

WonderingManII · Answer

I think some do and some don't. It depends on their personality.

drdrey · Answer

If you trust them since you know him for so long then no problem but if you still have a 1% doubt on him then he'll for sure cheat.  I have seen 100s cases where guy cheats

Valdemort · Answer

Some do, some don't

jahaims · Answer

Depends on the person not the job.

Jennz6 · Answer

Some people are faithful

SarahP080106 · Answer

No, because I've been the business travel hookup

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Where’s your next conference! 😉

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Most do but some don't. Do you travel for work

Anonymous · Answer

Happy people do not stray.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, they can remain faithful.

blackeagle007 · Answer

Good question. No straight answer here

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Depends on the person.

krin_m · Answer

It depends on the situation.

bowenw · Answer

I have.

hello4433 · Answer

Yes, almost all do

12karen · Answer

hmmm I doubt

Monica04 · Answer

If they want to.

In_Trance · Answer

Women being awful

SamWinchester058 · Answer

I doubt it

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