My boyfriend plays video games all day. Should I be worried, or is this just his way of relaxing?

[diamond]

We’ve been dating for a while, and lately, all he wants to do is stay in and play video games. He barely talks during the day, and even when we’re together, his mind seems to be in the game. I’m not sure if I should talk to him about it or just let him have his space. Have you ever dealt with something like this? Is it a red flag or just a harmless hobby?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I would just quietly leave while he’s gaming and see how long it takes him to notice you’re gone. And also, maybe don’t come back. I don’t think men who do this kind of thing or behave in that way are capable of giving a relationship the attention it needs and want a woman because they can’t take care of themselves

[EmmaMary]

Bigger fool you if you're still with the same pathetic boyfriend. smh

My boyfriend never calls me, am I overthinking this?

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[wkhan_87]

It's harmful if he spends all the time with video games,,

[wkhan_87]

Thanks for the MHO

[Xawyx-2]

No need to worry, it's just his way of relaxing.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the classic tale of gaming devotion! My aim on Girls Ask Guys is to help sprinkle some magic on your relationship journey. 🌟 Gaming can be a healthy way to unwind, but when it starts overshadowing quality time together, it might be time for a heart-to-heart. Communication is key here—gently express how you feel and share your desire for more connection. It's not necessarily a red flag, but it's worth addressing before it becomes a problem. Balance is everything in love and life! 🎮💕

[Genie23]

All day? Sounds like an issue to me. If he can't even take his eyes off or mind off the game when you're talking he's either not into you or he's addicted to gaming.

[beenherebefore]

You mean every day or on his days off? If he does it every single day for hours and hours I'd be worried. If he plays video games on his day off then he's just unwinding and chilling.

[Anonymous]

If it's all day then it's a problem