Living with low level hate. Is common thing?

My relationship was "ok"
I was doing some drinking
There was a big flare up
We have two beautiful children
I had to leave home 2 years ago
Then came back
Back in the bedroom
Things are the same as originally.. Not great

It just seems so typical
That's life I guess?

Anyone else in similar situation?
Living with low level hate. Is common thing?
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