How do you get back into the single lifestyle after a long term relationship?

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

To be honest I'm enjoying it, in large part. I get to do things on my own time, come and go as I please and do what I want with whom I want.

I already have so much responsibilities in my every day work, so it's really a breath of fresh air being able to take things easy, get some time for myself and lay back a bit. One of the things I scold my younger self for was that I used to jump from a long-term relationship right into another one; this time I want to enjoy being on my own, and although open for something casual I'll be crystal clear about not wanting anything too serious right away.

[MikeTheBartender]

Besides obvious stuff like dating profiles are going to a bar to meet babes with your single friends, it is super important to redevelop yourself. Get involved in your hobbies, ideally hobbies that involve other people, for example, painting is nice, but don't paint in your house, join an art group or something. It doesn't have to be with hot girls, just with people around. The other thing is to spend time outside, this is just general good advice. If you work on a computer or something, take it in the backyard, if the weather sucks, take it to a nice Cafe and sit by the window. But either way welcome back to being single, the last relationship ended for a reason, and hopefully you look forward to what is to come.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Start fucking other people. It's pretty fun.

Have you tried drugs? I might.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't envy you that search again. Trying to find one great match in all of that mess and damage, being damaged yourself.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Most probably I won't be searching anytime soon.

[Opinion Owner]

That's best. You'll stumble across the best people. Just keep aware.

[chrissykerdock]

go to a singles bar and find a girl to give you blowjobs

[WonderingManII]

LOL is blowjob your answer for everything?

[chrissykerdock]

@WonderingManII i know what boys like

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the sweet taste of freedom, my friend! It’s wonderful that you're enjoying the vibe of independence and calling the shots. You've learned from jumping too quickly before, so take this time to embrace your solo journey! Enjoy self-discovery and meeting new people without the pressure. Kudos for being open about what you want. It's like a personal renaissance—embrace it, flirt a little, and who knows what the universe might throw your way! 😉✨

[MikeTheBartender]

Brad... Amy will never take you back... She's fucking Jason the foodie.

[OlderAndWiser]

You are becoming older and wiser!

[NathanDavis]

as you said it first...

just do you, and enjoy...

[Emmytexrex]

When you were in a relationship did you have hobbies or things you enjoyed doing so if you leave a relationship does things are still there

[Chartreux]

Oh so are u going ahead with divorce?
i’m considering it to …

[Anonymous]

Yeah it’s nice to have freedom after all that time

[Staximus]

Go out and have some fun, you won't meet any new women working all the time

[Dongie]

Rock on brother! The topic just came from me here when I admitted that I don't want a relationship with all of the responsibilities that come with it. Just a friend to see often.

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure, I've never been in a relationship, I got used to being single.

[fonduegirl]

Don't rush yourself. Remember you're a gem

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Thank you!

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

did u not have responsebilities in ur relationship? it shouldn't be hard to not be in a relationship