Would you give up having a baby to save your lover? And men, would you let your lover give up a baby to save you?

[HawkPerception]

The scenario is the man finds out he needs a kidney transplant asap and the wife finds out she's pregnancy. The only thing is, you can't be a kidney donor while pregnant. What would your choice be?

I would not give up the baby

I would give up the baby

[Kori1236]

There’s still the option to have more kids so I’d probably terminate. That said I don’t want kids anyway lol. Alternatively if I were married and it came down to my life vs the fetus I’d expect him to choose me because as said before there’s still the option for more kids in the future.

[Kelly6]

@HawkPerception I will give kidney

[Kelly6]

@HawkPerception
Thanks for mho

[DishLady]

That’s the ultimate question, and when I was having a difficult pregnancy I signed a document insisting that if anything happened save the baby.


WHY?


The baby is the future, full of potential. The parents are just vessels and guides. In my case I knew my mom would have taken excellent care of my kid if anything happened to me, so it was easy to say “let go and let God.”


Of course at the time I didn’t know what an f-ing TRAIN WRECK the entire generation would become thanks to the collapsed educational system and SYMP PARENTING….


Smh…


Anyhow the ethical thing to do is save the kid, who didn’t ask its parents to do the horizontal mambo that brought him/her into existence….

[HawkPerception]

See, ethical here is subjective though. You can say it's your opinion, but it's not necessarily the ethical choice.

I would choose to save my partner every time.

[Apple1996]

I would probably try finding another kidney donor for him first

[HawkPerception]

No kidney donors found and he needs is asap as mentioned

[HawkPerception]

Needs it****

[Apple1996]

Hmm tough to say. I dont think hed want me to do it tbh

[Drumlin2001]

I'd be shocked as i had a vasectomy. We don't want more kids so pretty easy choice.
Also, pretty sure you can live on dialysis for quite a while. Just wait till babys born then schedule op

[HawkPerception]

You didn't answer the question. You weaseled your way out.

[Drumlin2001]

I did answer it. It would be an easy choice for us to abort

[Dongie]

There's no scenario this or the other side of hell where I sacrifice a baby for my own life!

[HawkPerception]

Okay let's say roles were reversed and you're the girl. Would you let your partner die to have the child?

[Dongie]

Yes if married to Dongie or he'd kill me.

[HawkPerception]

Lmao

[Dongie]

I must say Hawk, this question bites a nerve for me.

[HawkPerception]

It's all hypothetical. Just meant to force people to think of the moral choice

[Dongie]

I realize this. I guess it strikes at a deep seeded belief i have about abortion. I've been like this since age ten when I asked mom what abortion meant. 1973

[HawkPerception]

Guess you're spiritually aligned with that belief. I myself am not religious and I have no such belief. I'd save my partner over an unborn baby every time.

[Dongie]

Yeah, I probwoild to but I wouldn't let her save me.

[Smegskull]

This is what China is for.

[HawkPerception]

Sorry what?