How to feel beautiful or handsome again after being cheated on?

[Anonymous]

I know I’m not the only one to feel this way, but after I got cheated on, my self esteem took a hit. I developed insecurities that I never thought I could be insecure about. I was beautiful and felt beautiful before the betrayal. I don’t feel beautiful anymore. If you’ve ever been through this, how did you make yourself feel better and in what ways did you feel more handsome or more beautiful afterwards. Any advice or tips would help! Thanks x

[Finchie40]

Sadly being cheated on can take a huge toll on your self esteem and confidence. Especially if you blame yourself for the reason they cheated on you in the first place? But the truth is , you weren’t the reason they cheated , they cheated because they are a selfish POS person that has no dignity or respect for anyone but themselves. A cheater is a selfish person period , cheating is a selfish act , a cheater when busted red handed will immediately blame their partner for the reason they cheated , because they can’t admit the fact that they are a Selfish POS person. Understand you are still a beautiful person and that you deserve someone that loves you the same way you love them , never change who you are as a person to gain someone else’s’ approval. Understand not everyone is a cheater , and understand you deserve someone that loves and values you the same way you do for them , especially if you never cheated on them or did anything to hurt them. So again never blame yourself for someone’ else’s’ actions , they chose to be a selfish POS and I hope you hold them accountable for their selfish behavior by not giving yourself to them anymore, because they do not deserve you whatsoever. Me personally never takes cheaters back into my life , I might forgive them but I will never Forget. I will only stay with a girl ’ that values me and appreciates me the same way I do for her if she chooses to walk the other way or chooses to cheat on me? That’s her problem and she will suffer the consequences of her selfish actions because she no longer means shit to me once I am betrayed that way. I know being cheated on sucks and it hurts , but understand they do no deserve you whatsoever. Look at it as a learning experience , eventually you will meet someone that loves and respects you the same way you do them. Someone that truly loves you will fox what is broken on the relationship first and not cheat on you at all , Never stoop down to a cheaters’ level because of you do , then you will be just as bad as they were. The best revenge on a cheater , is to move on and act like they no longer exist to you , because they should no longer exist to you period , Never beg someone to love you whatsoever, Just treat people the same way you want to be treated in return and eventually you will find that someone that stands by your side no matter what. When the cheater realizes you have moved on and they see that you are happy and fine without them , and if you meet someone else , they will more than likely feel even more pathetic when they realize they no longer mean shit to you. Never give a cheater any sympathy for their selfish actions and behavior, I don’t care how much history you have with them , because if they truly loved and valued you , they would of never cheated on you on the first place. Again you are a beautiful person and you deserve to be treated the same way you treat them period.

[Zylos]

It might help to recognize that some of the world's most attractive people have been cheated on.

[Breanna_nonbinary]

I think women need to realize that men see sex as sex and not love. Women think that you only have sex with people you love. So if he has sex with someone it’s because he loves them. If someone is cheating it’s because they seek something in their relationship that they lack. For example women generally cheat because their partner doesn’t give them the emotional support they need.
So don’t take things personal and don’t feel insecure. You choose to feel insecure. You choose to feel bad about yourself. You could choose to not care. You could choose to not care what others think of you.
By no means am I justifying his behavior. What I’m saying is that you control just one thing in life. You! You control how you feel, how you will react to things, how you live. So be in control and don’t be a victim, be the person you want to be. 🙂

[Breanna_nonbinary]

You can DM me if you need to talk more. I’m full of good advice 😌

[cora1]

I went to the gym and used it as motivation. Get dressed and go out somewhere nice with your friends, go do your nails, pamper yourself. But exercising helped so much.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on Girls Ask Guys is to help you navigate these emotional waters, darling. 💫 Cheating can leave scars, but remember, your beauty was never tied to someone else's integrity. It's all about self-love, babe! Treat yourself like royalty with some pampering. Dive into activities that light you up, focus on your strengths, and surround yourself with supportive friends. Trust me, confidence is the new sexy, and you absolutely own it! 😘 Reclaim your sparkle and show the world that you’ve found your shine again! 🌟

[chrissykerdock]

suck off someone and have them cum in your face

[MasterKS]

@chrissykerdock LOL!!

[Anonymous]

Be honest. Their cheating had nothing to do with you. It is their faulty brains giving them permission to do it.

[jahaims]

People cheat to cope with self hate. It has nothing to do with their partner

[Anonymous]

You are beautiful, he’s just a dick head. Don’t worry about people like him , he’ll get his one day.

[MasterKS]

When you start to think it has nothing to do with your personality.

[Anonymous]

I had a ladyfriend that that happened to. She lost her mind, cut everyone she knew out of her life, and flew halfway across the country to start over.

Don't do that.

[Anonymous]

Try dating someone who is clearly dedicated to you.

[Anonymous]

You just need to focus.