Do girls suck at picking men or do men change afterwards?

[chris_987]

[Finchie40]

No, she picks a guy pretty much the same way us guys’ pick a girl in most cases. When we are attracted to someone , we really don’t know that much about that someone in the beginning in most cases , especially if you just met each other out in public , so in most cases we just assume they are what we want them to be , and unfortunately that isn’t always the case , because the truth is , we are just infatuated with that person or with each other , without really knowing each other personally, Why people should never rush into relationships with anyone , they are better off really getting to know each other. before even considering committing 100 percent and not just assuming the both of you are completely on the same page. because in most cases you aren’t. You are both just infatuated with each other, and unfortunately infatuation can easily make us become blind to the big picture, because once infatuation runs it’s course , that’s when the truth shines on whether the both of you are good for each other or not , especially when the both of you realize you really don’t have much in common with each other like you thought you did. Why I no longer rush into relationships with girls immediately , I prefer her and I to be friends then FWB’s with some strings attached , to give her and I time to really get to know each other before making the final decision to fully commit to each other , basically giving her and I time to decide on whether we are going to last the long haul or short haul , before breaking each others’ hearts . You should never commit to someone , that you are clearly not 100 percent sure of or you don’t know 100 percent of , Unfortunately a lot of people Rush into relationships without looking at the big picture especially when they meet someone they are attracted to. Immediately , again that’s infatuation. Me personally prefers to wait until her and I are 100 percent sure we want each other for the long haul , because when i agree to commit to a girl , I am in it for the long haul , not the short haul , so friends’ to friends with benefits's with some strings attached , seems to be the wise thing to do , especially when meeting someone new , because it takes a lot more than just attraction for any relationship to survive, so again , in the beginning it’s usually always great between the both of you , because you are both infatuated with each other , but in time , that can possibly change, to good or bad especially if the both of you rush into things without seeing the big picture. Infatuation can easily make us blind and can easily make us overlook the big picture , why so many relationships tend to not make it the long haul , because you both overlooked the big picture by being infatuated with each other. From my experiences with girls’ Most of them loved the fact that I wasn’t rushing them to be committed right away , she was more attracted to me , for the simple fact that she had breathing room with me. I can’t speak for all girls’ but most of the girls’ I ended up with loved that I wasn’t smothering her , Most girls’ hate when a guy she just met smothers her , Females’ are more turned on by a guy she feels she has to chase instead of the other way around. As a guy , you should never chase and smother a girl , Let her be the chaser instead. When a girl is chasing you , she is head over heels for you and the chances of her cheating on you , become very slim Because most girls’ hate insecure men that constantly smother her and come off as insecure. Most females’ want a guy she can look up to, not down to , when a girl feels safe and secure and trusted by a man , she wants to be in his arms as much as possible She will treat you as a king because she feels safe and protected and trusted by you , Mark my words

[D_Bone_Steak]

I generally think women suck at picking men. The majority of the ones that say they want this and that seem to pick the exact opposite on a regular basis.

Meanwhile I do realize the bitches talking about what they want are the ones that just didn't find it and are not talking about it at fucking all.

Meanwhile the women that get picked by men tend to end up being long term relationships. I first noticed this trend in cultures where both don't get to pick and it's actually their family that do the arranged marriage sort of deal.

[aquamint]

I don’t think it’s about sucking at picking men, because based off of my experience with what little guys I have dated they all seemed fine at first and once it hit past a certain mark they were just straight up horrible. You literally never know because people are getting so good at hiding the trash part of themselves

[chris_987]

Give me an example on how long it took you to notice

[LazerBean]

Most of the time when someone ends up with a loser, it's because she or is is bad at picking

[Miristheiss]

They absolutely suck. Most are totally run by feelings and can only respond to players who give them the "tingles".

Most don't have a clue.

[Anonymous]

Many women simply "pick" men for the wrong reasons. Google the "dark triad". It's the personality type that most women are sexually attracted to, and it's the personality type most likely to hurt a woman/

[RavVid]

I have come to know my primitive reptilian brain has taken charge of picking girls for me. When you think about it mate selection has to be done at a pretty low level in the brain cause sex is a function that every species must be good at to be extant.

So all the women I like all look the same. Even the ones that are too old and I have no sexual thoughts about.

So I expect women's reptilian brain circuitry is equally picking men for her and really the reptilian brain is not up for reasoned judgement.

It just tells us to mount 'er or get mounted.

[Opinion Owner]

@RavVid Reptilian brain?

[RavVid]

Evolution was lazy and just layered new brains on top of old brains. It is the triune brain. The oldest part of brain looks much reptile brains so that part of our brain is often called our reptile brain.

It is the 4F brain :- Feed Fight Flee Fuck. Ever been startled by squealing car breaks and jumped? That's the reptilian brain kicking in whilst your primate is pondering your bank balance.

I was walking down the street pondering my bank balance when I was rudely interuptted by a very hard erection. Yep, whilst my primate brain was totally engaged, my reptile brain spotted a very cute girl and got ready. I have to say it has very good taste.

The three brains work well together:

Reptillian brain: Phoar love those tits, I want to fuck 'er

Mammalian brain: I love her so much, I want to fuck 'er

Primate brain: She is so witty, I want to fuck 'er

They all come to the same conclusion.

[WonderingManII]

girls suck at picking men

[dudeinohio]

Men do not change. They can pick the wrong one.