Girls, what's your expectations from a guy doing household chores in this scenario?

[Anonymous]

Girls, I think this will be an interesting debate, so cast your opinion given the following scenario:

If you're in a relationship and live together, assume that he works full-time Monday to Friday and works 40+ hours a week, he leaves for work early morning, and doesn't get home till 6/7pm in the evening and is the higher earner. She on the other hand works part-time, and doesn't get home until 2, 3pm in the afternoon, and earns less than him.

Who's taking care of household chores during the week, like laundry, cleaning, and hoovering, given that you (the woman) have an extra 20 hours Monday to Friday than he does.

Weekends don't count here, since it should be fair game taking care of things together, and weekends pose a good opportunity for him to do a few things whilst she does a few less. And, time for both to do something together, like shopping.

What are your thoughts? The poll answers are in the woman's context as if she was answering. Since there's a 3-4 hour gap between them getting home, picking answer C would technically mean she gets to relax until he gets home.

The WOMAN should take care of the chores when she gets home at 2, 3pm

The MAN should take care of the chores when he gets home at 6, 7pm

Both MAN and WOMAN should take care of these chores when he gets home at 6, 7pm (she gets to relax for 3-4 hours until then)

Not listed? Other

[Anonymous]

50-50 if they pay 50-50, like their money is their own money. He can work part time too if he wants to. Working full time doesn’t relieve him of chores. If he pays or all money are both of their money, then she should do any chores that needs to be done during those hours she would have worked if she would have worked fulltime and then after that and he gets home, they should split any chore that may come up during that time.

[Braylee]

I did something similar I worked on fri-sat night but those were my only like full shifts some week day id be "on call" they would pay you for two hours and you had to be ready between set times for the batsignal, that job sucked. I did most of the housework and made dinner every fucking night, you run out of ideas, I didn't mind that part of the relationship though. Like working less and making your house more of a home half out of boredom isn't worse than working full time at least on a good day and it wasn't the 50s I wasn't chained to the skink. My boyfriend at the time being the biggest dick I've ever met did totally ruin it, I should have ended it sooner.

I typed for like a half hour and deleted so much

[Amy2004]

It doesn’t matter how many hours, it matters who’s paying most of the bills. If both are paying half and half then both do chores. But if he’s paying most of the bills then they need to have an agreement because she’s not paying most of the bills so she has to put in some work to do chores.

[Anonymous]

The people who try to rage bait are sad.