Guys, what do you think of women that went to school and build a career for themselves?

[Anonymous]

I’m asking because I notice a few men who get very upset when a women has a career. Some of these men on the internet get upset and it’s very confusing because who’s going to pay my bills while I’m single, do you want a lazy gold digger?

I cook, clean, work and I love to do all that, id be a stay at home wife, and at least I’ll have the flexibility of working if it’s ever needed. Some of these men need to wake up, your future wife should also be someone that can work if it’s ever needed and will not only be there for the good because let’s be honest house chores are a breeze compared to some of the work these men do. I’d do house chores any day over working, that would be a dream, but in the meantime a women that can is smart and can have the perseverance to study instead of being on the internet frying her dopamine receptors or going out clubbing.

[Finchie40]

My kind of girl , I will only get into a relationship with a girl that is independent and has her shit together for the most part , I like being with a girl that wants to work as a team not a girl that is a user.

[Asker]

Exactly! It’s about wanting a better future together and not setting each other back. But some men are so interested in someone that needs to be submissive and stay home and talk down on women that have everything together when in reality we’re the ones willing to help out our partner, even financially. I’m sure there’s many women that are willing to stay home though! I’m sure there’s more of those than the working kind.

[DonaldDarko]

I'm all for it, we need to find another way to reproduce anyway. With technology advancing and men and women drifting apart anyway it seems perfectly reasonable to pursue such a course. These relationships lead to more suffering than happiness anyway form what I've seen.

[Asker]

I don’t mind a relationship, but I would like to help financially if I can and I can stay home too if he is comfortable or if he makes enough for that, but having a career is necessary just in case he gets sick or he needs help.

[DonaldDarko]

I suppose you could try, relationships don't seem to last that long though.

[jennifer_bloom]

The standard is that you were put on this earth to serve, work and love, you can do that either through a job, or through being a wife and mother, or by doing both.

[Asker]

Absolutely, thank you for your response! Many men use the excuse of saying a women of god should only stay home, but the reality of we want our families to thrive as well! And we know how hard men work.

[AI Opinion]

I'm here to sprinkle some relationship wisdom! 🎉 Honestly, a woman with a career is like a unicorn—it shouldn’t be that rare and it’s magical! Some dudes just get intimidated, but who wouldn't want a partner who’s smart, ambitious, and can cover the bills when needed? 🙌 As long as the relationship is a team effort, both partners having their own thing is super empowering. Remember, confidence is the key! Keep shining and never dim your light for those stuck in the past. 🌟💪

[Asker]

Great points. Team effort is really the only way to have a successful happy relationship without letting everything fall on one persons shoulders.

[Anonymous]

You sound like one of the good ones. Men don't have an issue with women having a career. They have an issue with women who prioritize their careers over family, or women who think being a career woman somehow makes them more valuable to men.

You have your head in the right place. Some man is going to be lucky to have you.

[Asker]

Ooohh I see what you mean! That is good to know because I was feeling sad because I just felt like some men will not see that it’s not anything against them or that I feel cocky or anything and I felt like some men possibly saw that as unattractive because I’m not a princess that needs saving haha 🫠. But yes now I know what you mean by prioritizing career over family. Thank you so much and thank you for your compliment ☺️

[Anonymous]

Personally, I would really like that. She would make me push myself a lot more. I'd describe myself as independent. I hate asking others for help, and I have no desire to leach off her success.

[Asker]

This really makes me happy to hear that some men like this and it’s not intimidating. I don’t even make that much money, but just the fact that I went to school makes me feel like I can be intimidating. And I’m actually very shy but I’ve just seen online that some men don’t feel comfortable with women having careers, but now I know it’s because some women prioritize their careers more.

[seeyounexttuesday]

No one gets upset you have a career. Modern women, unfortunately are more concerned with a career than they are with having husbands and children. That's the problem.

[Asker]

I see what you mean, ok then that definitely makes sense! Thanks!

[jahaims]

Just another adult being an adult

[Asker]

Exactly 🙌

[Hellraiser1984]

I'd love a career woman

[Asker]

Great 😊

[Anonymous]

I think it's ok for a woman to develop her career.

[Asker]

Thank you!!

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome

[Anonymous]

Its really their choice.

[Jennz6]

You think my career was my choice

[Anonymous]

I don't care.