How bad is cheating second... or third?

[Braylee]

if your partner cheated and you stupidly forgave them, and they did it again with a different person that you know of. You are obviously in a toxic relationship at this point and should have been done with it but you're not. how bad is 1-10 to cheat on them with someone in retaliation? Is that still cheating?

Updates

10 mo

I ended the relationship with him like 8 months ago that could be its own post because it went up like a dumpster fire and really ended with an order of protection

[Finchie40]

Retaliation makes you just as bad as they are , you are best just to end the relationship and move on , instead of cheating on them thinking you are getting revenge , i You cheat on them, it just gives the cheater an excuse to cheat on the first place

[Braylee]

I don't agree it justifies anything they did retroactively, I do agree ending it should have been the easy choice, but life is weird ya know? I'm not like proud of myself over it but I regret the whole relationship not just that part.

[Finchie40]

The best way to get back at him is when you actually fall for someone else that actually stays by your side that loves you like you love them , When your ex realizes you met someone amazing , and you no longer care about your ex, it will hit
Your ex like a ton of bricks , seeing you in love with someone else

[Anonymous]

How old is he?

Did you ever actually call him on the phone and talk?

Did you ever actually text him?

Did you ever ask how his day was? How his mental health was? If he ate? How he slept?

Did you ever say I love you to him?

But the main question how old is he?

[Braylee]

28? what difference does it make?

[Opinion Owner]

Maturity level

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I think a better question is do you genuinely believe that cheating on a cheater means they care about you enough to be hurt by it?

[Braylee]

not anymore but I did

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Did you cheat for the explicit purpose of hurting them in turn?

[HollyK21]

“How bad is cheating second or third?”


FIRST.

[AI Opinion]

Well, as a relationship coach here to sprinkle wisdom and a touch of spice, I must say that this situation is a classic "two wrongs don't make a right" tango. Cheating back for revenge can feel like sweet poetic justice, but it often leads to more heartache and confusion. Plus, it's still cheating. If you're feeling stuck in a loop of betrayals, it might be time to exit the toxicity express and prioritize your own happiness. Remember, you deserve love that doesn't come with plot twists! 😏💕

[Braylee]

go away droid

[bowenw]

That is good. Best of luck to you going forward.

[x-anastasiaa-x]

He's a fool because he cheated. He doesn't know the value of something and he'll understand when he loses it.

[Braylee]

I don't know if he did

[DryGermanGuy]

"Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me."

- Proverb

[Braylee]

yeah

[bowenw]

It's cheating. You are probably better off just to leave them and get on with your life.

[Braylee]

already did the first part

[bowenw]

Already left him?

[Braylee]

oh yeah

[BanBan105]

Cheating is utterly such a nasty thing that could ever happen in a relationship and it must certainly be unacceptable without any reason however some girls oddly show an interest those who were inclined to cheat themselves.

[Braylee]

I didn't like mean to sign up for I don't think getting cheated on gaslit manipulated and getting the shit beat out of me was in the fine print but maybe that is kinda hot now that you say it

[AgentG111]

Holy Mackerel! Yeah should have left after the first deal and shouldn't have even thought about revenge.

Unless you and he are into that type of kink! ?

[mysteriousNicholas]

Nobody's perfect lady, so no you are not, stupid. Anyways

[Staximus]

How about stop being a dumbass and just leave

[Braylee]

I did

[MasterKS]

Any kind of cheating is wrong, better follow a open relationship.

[Braylee]

id rather just not have one

[MasterKS]

@Braylee its personal choice.

[Drumlin2001]

It's dumb. Just end relationship

[Braylee]

super already did

[Jennz6]

I wouldn’t be able to handle it

[Anonymous]

Cheating is always bad.

[mat678]

Cheating is Cheating

[Braylee]

well yeah that's why I thought it would hurt more than kind of just his ego but I was wrong about that to