I find PDA to be incredibly obnoxious: Agree or disagree?

Question

People who engage in this activity kind of make me sick to my stomach. Like just do it in private. No one else wants to see that

lilyanony1 · Accepted Answer

It depends.

When I used to get on the underground to go to work it used to piss me off when couples would frolick and slobber all over each other, especially when it was like they wouldn't take a breath, and often forgot to hold on to the rails properly to remain stable.

They'd end up bumping into people or creating a barrier inhibiting space around them for others to utilise.

Now though, cos I hardly see it, when I do I'm always surprised.

People generally seem quite unhappy ATM.

There are levels to this for me. I just don't want to feel like they need to get a room. Everything else below that level is perfectly fine.

petitedollbabee · Accepted Answer

Disagree, I think everyone is entitled to express their love for another person in a legally appropriate manner - obviously no indecent exposure/sexual activities.
People who are disgusted by PDA are usually just lonely and/or bitter as they don’t have that kind of love in their lives.

soe11 · Accepted Answer

Disagree with you.  It's a personal choice and desires as well as freedom. It's indeed promoting happiness and harmony in society a positive culture. We all expressed our emotions and desires publicly positively without harming anyone. I don't mind at all what other folks think. I don't see what other does in public.  Everyone has a right to exposure and expresses how they like.  PDA is a personal and individual choice. My girlfriend's family all love it

Joshydavid25 · Accepted Answer

Yeah, it can definitely get annoying if over done or like the couple is trying to get attention and being performative.. If they are just enjoying each other in public then that's fine.. Like holding hands, the arm around each other, or little stuff like that..

AviatorTom · Answer

I like PDA, in moderation. My wife hates it, so we save the DA for private times.

that_one_girll · Answer

If you find it annoying, it might be because you're feeling jealous that you don't have someone to share that kind of relationship with. Just saying, if someone were making you as happy as those two people showing public displays of affection, you would probably be doing the same thing too.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know as long as they aren't in my personal bubble and aren't being overly PDA (heavy making out, etc.) I dont really care. A smooch here or there I think is endearing. Even if they are making out, if theyre not in my space, I probably won't notice, or if I do, I dont care. Its promoting positivity. Love is love, and I think love is great. If you dont like it, look away.

exitseven · Answer

I remember when a few people got Palm Pilots when they first came out. They thought they were really cool but they were really obnoxious.  Personal Date Assistant

HighValue · Answer

A hug, holding hands, or a quick normal kiss are fine with me in public, but the making out, humping on their leg, groping, etc. are inappropriate in public.

RxR0954 · Answer

Nah people are just being happy. I saw my partner’s parents hold hands and kiss on our walk (mind you i never saw my parents do it) and that was just adorable

Anonymous · Answer

Holding hands or snuggling into each other would be fine to some extent. More than that of kissing or more is just nonesense. Nobody says don't love each other, it is just so natural to feel and understand that its not there to be done.
Feels silly even going into such matters.

valentina4eva · Answer

it doesn’t bother mee🤷🏻‍♀️ im glad people are happy!!😊

Anonymous · Answer

Absolutely. Was on a crowded train late one night and this girl decided to give her boyfriend a handjob. It was quick and he was staring at me and came on my jeans. When he came she zipped him up and they left at the next stop.

Zack-Bann · Answer

I find it’s non of my business nor anybody else’s  As long as children aren’t being exposed to things they shouldn’t be adults can just keep on walking

AMS700CX4u2 · Answer

Disagree. It is terrible when our need for respectability becomes so great that we shun those who respond to a greater call.

OneViewpoint · Answer

Nope. I disagree. I think PDA is sorta nice to see. As long as it isn’t a staged thing for a social media post by some “influencer”.

Purpleronnie · Answer

It really doesn’t bother me , and even if it did … what am I gonna do about it. Seems pointless to even care

RavVid · Answer

I think it is good to see affection in public. Helps counters dating negativity.

loveslongnails · Answer

I'd rather see a PDA than hear a stupid magat blathering on their phone.

HisBro · Answer

When it's done in an exaggerated or extreme way, yes, I agree. But in moderation it's okay

DrPepper12 · Answer

It's wonderful to see!! Especially older couples holding hands walking!!

Staximus · Answer

Nothing wrong with a hug or a kiss or holding each other in public. People making out or having sex should get a room

ChillDude4L · Answer

Meh, As I grew older, I don't care much about it

Anonymous · Answer

Used to love it in high school. Now I keep it to a minimum.

IWILLRIPYOURSOUL_OUT · Answer

Lol it's for horndogs that wanna show off  to hide how toxic their relationship really is at home

Anonymous · Answer

I think it's ok, they are happy, and I don't mind their PDA activity.

AlwaysFaith · Answer

Yes get a room pls

Miristheiss · Answer

Disagree. Only if it is over the top.

blackeagle007 · Answer

Good god, get a room 😂

bunniesrcute · Answer

yes, leave it at home

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

They can be somewhat off-putting.

Anonymous · Answer

This is a you problem.

Lipsandhips · Answer

I have to disagree. I'm okay with pda.

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