Would you believe me if I said I only had sex with girls’ for love , not a transaction?

[Finchie40]

Most females’ don’ t believe me when I tell them this , but little does she realize , I am actually telling her the truth , which I know there are a lot of guys’ and girls’ that can just have sex for the hell of it. But I am not that way. Do you believe me?

[RandomGirl42]

Yes. I am often accused of being naive', gullible, too trusting, etc but whatever. I believe in the good of humanity. So, yes.

“I believe in everything until it's disproved. So I believe in fairies, the myths, dragons. It all exists, even if it's in your mind. Who's to say that dreams and nightmares aren't as real as the here and now?”

― John Lennon

[sage2021]

I think 🤔 that you love them at the time, but it doesn't seem like the type of love that lasts for a lifetime.

[Finchie40]

I love them at the time with the intentions of hoping they love me back the same way, but unfortunately I haven’t met her yet , I thought my wife was the one , but I was wrong , the only girl I would probably still be with was the one that passed away for a brain tumor that I met years ago, she treated me like Gold and loved me the same way I loved her , so until I meet a girl like her , my ass is staying single

[sage2021]

@Finchie40

I'm so sorry to learn that the girl for you, THE ONE, passed away. Darn it!! 💔
I get what you're saying, but I don't believe the women of today have what it takes to be "The One" for hardly any guy, otherwise we wouldn't read about it here on GaG from the guys. It's a real problem!
They just don't make them like they used to, and I have a sneaking suspicion that is due to social media filling their heads with a bunch of 💩!!!

[Finchie40]

I agree , this society isn’t the way it used to be to be back before social media was even really a thing , relationships and love lasted a hell of a lot longer then they do these days , it’s actually sad seeing how society changed for the worse instead of the better , people have become very selfish these days. If I could
Go back in time , I would in a second , Most people today claim they want love and loyalty but the second they get it , they eventually don’t want it anymore , allowing themselves to be brainwashed by social media nonsense , that everyone is a cheater and a backstabber etc. This government has us right where they want us and it’s just going to get worse. It’s like the human race become a bunch of selfish lazy ass pansies that have no dignity or respect for themselves or anyone else anymore , just allowing all this shit that’s happening to us in this country to continue falling apart , All these dumb ass liberals that have no clue about shit. That whine and cry over the dumbest things Now everyone is blaming Trump for this disaster , ummm this disaster has been happening way before Trump was even in the house , but let’s overlook that and blame Trump , people are stupid and brain dead

[sage2021]

@Finche40
At least we agree about what the problem seems to be. It's very sad 😔 to me though.

[sage2021]

Thank you for the MHO 🙂

[mysteriousNicholas]

@Finchie40 I'm personally of the view of for health and germ and compatibility reasons "I prefer to be so picky, which I have been, with dating, that I wait for one and done" 👍🏻✅ lol. Rather than sleeping around or picking poorly.

Alternatively, I stay single 🙃 🙌🏻 😈

[mysteriousNicholas]

@Finchie40 I believe you that you care for women. 5 stars 👀

[mysteriousNicholas]

@Finchie40 lol either in this life or the next life someday long afar, it's more fun to think of what could be an ideal woman (either here or eventually or ideally) even if it's just for my amusement and bemusement 🙃😋 what could've been / could be. Anyways. Hard to find a decent woman - and picky is my picky mantran- I believe you Finchie. You deserved better

[mysteriousNicholas]

*mantra (didn't space) 🚀 keyboard

[Jamie05rhs]

With all due respect, can you prove to us that you're not full of shit? How do you actually love these girls? Are you willing to commit to them? How many girls have you had sex with?

[Abbycado]

Yes, I believe that based on your character that I know of.

[Nikki1989]

Some men are restricted in that way, so it doesn't come as a shock.

[Anonymous]

Aren't you the dude who says that unless she puts out frequently you be leaving because then she be denying you intimacy?

That seems pretty transactional to me. "Fuck me or I'll leave".

[Finchie40]

You are somewhat correct but not exactly , , I will leave a girl if the relationship becomes one sided , meaning she no longer considers my wants and needs and only her own , basically if intimacy and affection was never an issue and then all of a sudden it becomes an issue and she constantly makes excuses not to be intimate and affectionate with me on a steady basis , then I will start walking the other way unless she has a valid reason not to want to be close to me anymore

[Sal_Monella]

Similarly, I think Cunnilingus is an act of love. Even if you don't love her yet.

[Anonymous]

I believe you.

I would be just like that, but...

I never had sex.

[Jennz6]

@Finchie40

I’m not sure, how many girls have you been in love with?

[chrissykerdock]

no maybe now not when you were 16

[robocop666]

I believe you as I tell the truth too.

[Godihateyou]

Lol. Gay

[Anonymous]

Why not!