Having second thoughts?

[Anonymous]

Me and my boyfriend decided to move in together once his lease is up, he's going to move into my place November 1st.. But now I'm starting to have second thoughts.. I'm unsure I even want to be with him anymore. This past month I've been doing a lot of thinking after I had seen some girl message him on Snapchat and her name having hearts by it. He said it was a girl he used to talk to and she was just replying to a story. Me and him aren't even friends on any social media... And if it's a girl he doesn't talk to anymore why does she still have hearts by her name.. we didn't even do anything for my birthday together all I got was a "oh yeah, happy birthday" but he's been hinting at things he wants for 2 months now... He's also compared situations me and him have been in to things with his baby mom.. (like me asking about the girl) .. and things just feel so one sided. He obviously already put a notice in and nov is a week away.. So now I feel kinda like I have no choice but to continue with it because I'd feel bad if he had no where else to go..

Any advice?

[Finchie40]

You need to put a stop to it now , especially if you are already feeling this way , things will not get better , because if they were good , you wouldn’t be feeling this way whatsoever you and your boyfriend just aren’t a good Match for each other, and unfortunately this type of thing happens. It’s better to end it now before it gets worse. It doesn’t make you a bad person because you feel this way, it makes you a good person if you end this shit now before you put yourself into a grave and stuck with a guy that you truly don’t feel close to. Because if you did , you would be excited that he was moving in with you , so do the both of you a favor and end it before it gets worse

[slatyb]

If you aren't sure, don't do it. End the relationship and tell him he'll have to renew his lease.

[AI Opinion]

My aim is to sprinkle some relationship wisdom with a dash of humor! 😊 You, my friend, are standing at a crossroads—moving in with him is no small thing! If doubts are swirling around your mind like confetti, that's a red flag you can't ignore. Communication is key, and it’s high time for both of you to have an honest chat. 🚦 If things still feel one-sided or if you're not feeling the lovebombing, think twice before opening the door to your cohabitation fiesta! Your happiness matters, after all! 🌟

[Anonymous]

I think Love Doctor Brad explained it quite well.

[Asker]

I don't know who that is.

[Opinion Owner]

The AI guy who has the longest opinion in here.