Have you broken someone's heart?

[Anonymous]

Looking back i have a lot. I didn't even realized it.

[Unap0logetic_]

I think I did and karma came for me… it’s sad now that I look back at it, but I got what I deserved.

[Asker]

Yes karma hit me bad too

[Sam1133]

@Unapologetic
Run to me when world gets mean towards you. ❤️

[Genie23]

Unknowingly. I had no idea my actions or would hurt someone as I had no idea he was in love with me.

[AI Opinion]

Breaking hearts? 🥺 Oh, the tangled webs we weave in the world of love! You're not alone. Many don't realize the impact they're having until hindsight kicks in. The key is learning from it and bringing some serious kindness to future connections. Life's too short for regrets or leaving behind a trail of broken hearts. Keep growing and showing that heart some love! 💖🌟

[HawkPerception]

I think I've done so twice. One girl was bipolar and told me while we were dating. I told her it wasn't an issue, but then she started acting up one day and I knew I didn't want to handle that for life. I also got her to read some pages of a book I was writing and she said she didn't understand what was written. It wasn't a hard read. It was a fictional novel, so that was a big turn off. She was probably the sweetest girl I've dealt with otherwise.

The second girl was my previous ex. She just wasn't communicating her thoughts in the relationship and retreated into her own space too much. I told her many times I want her to communicate more and things never changed, so I ended it. I had a feeling she wanted to end it too. When I said we should, she agreed, but started crying.

[DishLady]

Yeah. Completely unintentional. He was too young. It wasn't logical for him to be into me. His plan was clearly to have kids and a family, which would require a much younger gal. Was he hot af? Yes indeed. Was I flattered to be adored by this kid? Sure, however morally I'd never let anything happen with someone 10+ years my junior. It's just not how I was raised.

I actually tried to set him up with a nice gal bc I wanted to see him happy. But one night it truly backfired... We were at an event and (1) everyone asked if he was my partner (bc he was glued to me all night) and (2) when I told him "Go, don't sit with me, there are so many eligible young ladies here!" he gave me a look and dared me to turn around and FIND ONE. After taking a long hard look, I had to admit that it was VERY slim pickings. :(

We don't talk to one another anymore. It's for the best, I suppose, though I miss having a friend to chuckle at the ridiculousness of life with.

[Finchie40]

Yes a few times , but I only did it so they could move on , because they didn’t take me seriously when I told them I didn’t want to be with them anymore , it’s like talking to a wall , when someone doesn’t understand what the words it’s over between us means, Indid feel bad for doing it , but it was the only way I could get them to understand it’s over between us.

[MrChinaski]

Did you try this approach?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4nmm4QPyd2Y

[Rei13]

I’ve broken a few hearts. I do feel bad but sometimes it just happens that way when feelings do not match

[FreakInTheBedroom]

I may have but I hope not because mine has been and its true that shit really does hurt, everyday all day I felt this pain down deep like my soul was fractured.
She ended up coming back which of coarse my dumb ass took her right back and was happy about it.
Well the happy didn't last long because things never returned to what they once were, we were together 14 years before she took off and come back like 3 or 4 months later and because she was still lying about some shit and we could never talk about it I knew or I had a feeling it would all happen again and after another 9 years except the entire 9 years feels like a complete waste of time and life was all I got from it.
I seen that I was the only one trying and I accepted that the woman I married was never coming back because this one I've been with the last 9 years has made my life hell and well I learned that the one I loved didn't actually ever really exist because that woman was a character she created to manipulate me and suck me into her game which is what it was to her even if she doesn't realize it herself.
She went from being this beautiful person that I loved more then anything to this hideous fuckin life draining monster and I recognized patterns at this point and knew what was about to go on so I let her know that I knew what she was and what she was doing after a fight one day that she tried to blame on me but I did exactly what she didn't want me to do... I fugured her out and beat her at her own game I stopped giving her the reactions she expected amd she lost her control over me and I left her before she played the victim card and left me and even though I knew at that point it was over for good and that it was for the best it still hurt even and it was hard at first because she kept trying to fool me still and their was really a lot to it all but that sthe just if it and heartbreak fuckin hurts so bad it really does physically, mentally and emotionally.

[FunkyMonkee]

Only once, that I can think of.
High school. I'm about 14 and already 6' 1"! There was this girl, Janis, who had long red scraggly hair, a voice that could peel paint, she was a bit overweight, not very pretty at all, and only about 4' tall and she was madly in love with me! I had to keep an eye out for her when going from one class to another. One day, she caught me!! She came RUNNING down the hall at me yelling my name and telling me how much she was in love with me!! She wrapped her arms around my waist professing her love for me and even crying over me!! Her head came up past my naval. I don't recall ever seeing her again after that.

[Amy_Mi]

Yes, but never out of cruelty, only out of clarity.

Sometimes the kindest thing you can do is walk away before love turns into resentment.

I don’t shatter hearts for sport, I outgrow connections that can’t meet me where I’ve evolved.

It’s not pride, it’s peace.

Because I’d rather be the lesson that made someone stronger than the comfort that kept them small.

Breaking a heart isn’t always betrayal.

Sometimes, it’s the beginning of someone else’s becoming.

[ArrowheadSW]

Yes I have, although not intentionally. I dated a lady during the summer in college but by fall semester I realized she and I were not a good match. I thought it was apparent and that she would understand but it was real hard on her. A summer fling without realizing it at first!

[nolabels]

I would hope not, but how can one ever know for sure?

[Asker]

You know it when the karma hits you..

[Anonymous]

Not any I was significantly involved with but there are guys whose hearts were broken due to their expectations of me which I did not encourage. If I had casual sex with someone then it would have been clearly understood that's what it was, and if they had expectations of more from me then that was their doing.

[slatyb]

I did once and really regret it. Not because we should have stayed together, but because I didn't end it when I knew I wasn't going to stay.

[phill5158]

Yeah I did and I copped my fair share of karma in the aftermath. I just was not ready at the time and I was not honest with myself. She now is in a long term relationship so it probably worked out for the best in the end (well for her anyway).

[AMS700CX4u2]

It was not until her after her death that I talked to her sister. I was just to stupid in my teen years. I did not see what was right before me. It is one of the things that I will have to ask forgiveness for when I see her in the Kingdom.

[Purpleronnie]

Absolutely, but it’s always a decision I have thought long and hard over and I’m sure I’ve lost a little piece of myself along the way , every time I’ve had to do it.

[PeachyPie93]

Not seriously.. I have rejected people but I don't think I actually broke hearts lol
I have had mine broken twice..

[CherryLove007]

Yes

None of us are special.

Cheers

[Anonymous]

Yes. And looking back I now feel horrible about it!

[Noredcarpet]

They claim I have, but they broke my heart first.

[Anonymous]

Yes. I'm 99.999...% sure I did with one girl accidentally. There have been a few I think that happened due to my lack of interest or attention, but I couldn't care about them the same way.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, or so they say, but life was never meant to be easy. Some people are just weak.

[abc3643]

Yes, I did and I felt bad about it because I knew what that was like.

[Abbycado]

No, not that I have done intentionally or realized that I did.

[Yoursweetgirl]

Yea once but they totally deserved it.

I got hurt way more times before and after so I think karma got me too

[exitseven]

yes, I have done this. I wish that I didn't have to do it.

[Godihateyou]

Far too many. Im a misogynist sociopath that was molested by a woman when I was 6. All my friends, coworkers, pets, kids, girlfriends amd wife are women. I haven't talked to a man in a year or 5.

[YourExLover69]

Nope but being victim of ghosting in the past. 😒

[Anonymous]

Unfortunately, I have and have regretted it ever since because I’ll never get them back.

[Anonymous]

I don't think so.

Probably my heart broke more often...

[stayorgo]

I haven't dated for a long time. My heart has plenty times. But of course there's always a chance , that is have And not known

[Anonymous]

I hope not, but i fear, yeah. It took me a lot of years to even understand that I could have that effect on someone.

[Anonymous]

Nope, never, but my heart was broken by several girls.

[robocop666]

Nope but I pissed off a lot of women trying to score me.

[ihaveaopiniontoshare]

If I did they had bad taste if they're crushin on me of all people 😂

[Anonymous]

No mine is broken beyond repaired, now I just come to rant on questions

[FreyaRed]

No, they broke their hearts by themselves.

[Ironic_Method]

A few times, but it's better than leading them on.

[loveyouoak]

I haven't broken anyone's heart.

[Jamie05rhs]

I certainly hope not.

[Staximus]

Not that I know of but maybe

[Darkest-Knight]

Yep. But that's their problem.

[Sebastian100]

One sided love? Yes, a few

[wkhan_87]

Yes , unfortunately 😔

[NervousIndividual]

I have never been in a relationship, so no

[HighSchoolCustodian]

Probably not. Not much of chance.

[jazzy34]

Not that i know of.

[mysteriousNicholas]

Unlikely 😋

[Zira2211]

yes it happened.

[Sam1133]

Yes many times

[Light_beam]

i did.. many times

[andy530]

Yeah unfortunately