Would you be bothered by stuttering?

[Noredcarpet]

I would not say too much when being a child and I had a stuttering problem. I have worked on that. I thought about it only recently that I when in conflict with my ex or current, you know they're waiting for me to say something, I wait before I speak, the more nervous I was, the more time passed and so then I made it 50/50.

The guys who noticed (you can't tell that much, only happens when it does, tired, stress, nervous) I would say stood back somewhat, but then continued the conversation as if I hadn't stuttered, but I could tell, still, by the look in their eyes they discovered something new about me.

I can't remember a single time when someone made fun of me. I don't know how this got to be such a big part of my ways of communicating as an adult. I hold back. I try to stay calm. I would always think a lot before I would say something. I hated talking in public or get attention. Mom would say I would always tap on my dad in public, he would lean to get closer and I would whisper into his ear. My parents never stutter.

My partner has never made fun of me or stated that I stutter, but it still today make me feel concious, as if afraid.

Would you mind having a partner that stutters or would it be the silent, the pauses, when you are expecting, demanding an answer that would make you irritated? Or how would it make you feel?

[Batsy01010101]

I can relate Danielle said i have a habit of repeating myself but that's only because I'm in shock and complete disbelief by what i hear that comes out of her mouth especially things that aren't true or things that aren't even remotely true. My jaw figuratively and sometimes literally drops by what i hear and when i respond my brain is still in shock mode that she even said some of the horrible things she does that when i reapond i repeat myself when i talk because i can't even completely fathom the absurdity i just heard

[Noredcarpet]

Im sorry. She sounds verbally abusive and that's never ok. She should stick to the point, what the argument is about, more than one perspective can be true, to better understand one another. I never grew up with people who would do this why i always felt safe when fighting because i know i was always loved, it was protected, isolated from what ever the fight was about. I have learned the hard way that is not how some fight, not how they were brought up. She can change, she needs to stop this at once if she wants a healthy loving relationship with you.

[Batsy01010101]

She doesn't though she's tried to get the cops on me and vice versa. And you're right she was very verbally abusive

[Bitter_Sweet94]

Not really.

Stuttering doesn’t change someone’s kindness, confidence, or how they treat you.

If anything, it just shows they’re human.

As long as the person is genuine, it’s not something that would bother me.

[AI Opinion]

As a California-based relationship coach with a flair for all things amour, my goal here is to guide you with a dash of charm and wisdom. Stuttering wouldn't bother me in the slightest. Communication goes beyond words; it’s about understanding, connection, and vibe. If someone’s waiting for the perfect comeback while I’m with them, it’s their loss, because connection trumps stray syllables any day. Besides, those pauses could be the dramatic effect we never knew we needed! Keep embracing your uniqueness, it's part of your charm. 😘

[bowenw]

That would not bother me.

[beenherebefore]

No, I wouldn’t.

[Xawyx-2]

Not really.

[dudeinohio]

No problem