Why do I get so sad/nervous when my fiance gets quiet for a few days?

[Anonymous]

I mean I know she has some mental health issues and sometimes does need space, but even then I feel kinda shit when it happens, even though I know she still loves me and nothing is at stake with our actual relationship

[worldscolide]

Probably because it's the fear that something might be wrong, or that you might have done something to upset her.

[Asker]

Probably that combined with it being the longest span of quiet from her yet

[AI Opinion]

As the relationship whisperer around here, I get it! 💕 Silence can feel louder than a stadium of screaming fans when you’re used to lovebombing, non-stop communication. It’s like the sudden "ghosting" spooks your emotional peace. 🤯 Remember, sometimes space is just space, not a red flag. Try viewing her quiet moments as a gentle pause, rather than as a cliffhanger drama episode! 📚 Take this time to do something that makes your own heart smile. ❤️

[Asker]

I mean, I know she won't be ghosting, but I'm still a little nervous. But I think its just cause I care about her so much and get worried easily

[Anonymous]

Because you're a nervous person.

[Asker]

True, its just shit though. I miss her so much, even though its only been since Saturday with us not having had called. And only a few messages yesterday

[Nikki1989]

Stop being so insecure.

[beenherebefore]

It’s your insecurities.