Have you ever had a forbidden lover?

[Kenkebuttery]

Someone you loved and they loved you but everyone hated that you two were together

[emeraldsaphire]

Um kinda. So My parents had a strict no boyfriends til I was 16 rule, and they had to approve of them. I hated this rule at the time, but now that I have a baby on the way, I'm probably going to have the same rule😅

Anyway, I was friends with this guy from church. He was a year older than me, but barely a year. We started dating at 12 then at 16 he asked my dad for permission to date me. Which he said yes. I knew my dad would say yes. He loved him XD

So was this "forbidden love" maybe 🤷‍♀️

[Anonymous]

My stepdaughter. Her mother had started dating me when I was 20 and she was 30, she had left her husband a year before after cheating with another guy. Anyway her daughter was 8 back then. Fast forward 8 years later and my ex was getting bored of me causing all sorts of problems. Drinking, cheating etc. Id become very close to my step daughter during this period and we fell for each other. My ex moved me out and her new man in. As soon as she was old enough my step daughter ran away and moved in with me. We moved states and eventually married 2 years later. Weve been together this last 9 years happily married with four kids.

[Finchie40]

Yes my ex , my friends’ and family didn’t care for her whatsoever and told me to leave her a bunch of times , which I wish I listened to them earlier than I did

[DishLady]

LOL. Sort of. We flirted heavily on and off but never id anything bc everyone hates the guy rather strongly for being a player and dishonest etc. and they're protective of me (knowing I'm not one to hop from guy to guy).

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, my aim is to help make sense of the wild, wonderful world of love. 💖 Forbidden love? The spicy allure! I've seen clients in similar situations where Romeo and Juliet vibes hit hard. People may throw shade, but if the connection is real and healthy, who cares? Of course, always watch for red flags! 😉

[ohsheeT]

It wasn't forbiddèn. I was younger and she was way older we never told anyone
Well I didn't tell any of my friends she told a few of hers

[This_is_me_86]

How big was she age gap?

[ohsheeT]

I was almost 17. She was 47

[aceleon]

not sure

most girl friends of my girls was not that happy with me being around their besties since i was not really famous for being a mild person actually flip that m and that is what i was, constant fighting, underage substance abuse every single day for the entire highschool and driving, a crime list that goes from thieft to traspassing to hustle to assult to injuring, not being a usual boyfriend thing and more of a we arehanging out type of guy.

the most outstanding ones i guess was the 1st year girl i lead into believing we were dating when i was last year to have sex with her and the lady who was in her 40s since i doubt many people would support me on those flings.

[NathanDavis]

nope... not forbidden, no haters

unless you want to count all those guys who wanted to be with my girl, but that's more like being salty, lol... and they got over it

[Kenkebuttery]

That's just jealousy

[NathanDavis]

well... one of them almost ran me over, haha

so I think he did hate me a little bit

[Kenkebuttery]

🤣damn

[DryGermanGuy]

No, my life does not resemble something like the West Side Story.

[Kenkebuttery]

This must be some old man reference

[DryGermanGuy]

Not necessarily, people read or watch it in school today as well.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

All my good relationships were like that. If people dont get mad it almost makes me think there's something I'm gonna be the last one to find out about that girl 😳

[soe11]

• I don't think so.
• We have love each other openness, no secret at all.
• No concealment each other nor other and outsider.
• Currently my girlfriend is well known her mother and live together same roof.

[rebelsunshine]

Yes, it was quite exciting and lasted for three years.

[dragoblack]

Pfft no, and i never would. Cheating is stupid. If you are not happy with who you are with, talk about your issues with them or leave. It's that simple.

[elizamichale1]

Yup but most of the people close to me or in my family were ok but other were not so much

[Anonymous]

Forbidden lover is like a teacher or a friend of dad's or something like that.

[BruceWayne32123]

I’ve tasted some forbidden fruit but not exactly in this way that you described

[FunkyMonkee]

Technically, 3 out of 5 times.

[Kenkebuttery]

Dang

[FunkyMonkee]

Number 1 was married but told me she was divorcing him because he beats her. She eventually did but not until a few years after she broke up with me.
Number 2 had JUST gotten married weeks before, which I fully supported and even talked them into doing but he left her about 3 weeks later, she broke her foot and asked me to stay with her until the cast came off and then we fell in love. She had another nervous breakdown and, by the time she got out of the hospital half a year later, she decided to go back to him.
Number 3 was married to a guy that eventually had a sex change so, she no longer considered herself married to him, even though they still were, legally. Eventually, he reverted but she stayed "single" and looking. She found me, we spent 10 years together, even planned to get married, until she started cheating on me because, apparently, I didn't make enough money to suit her.

[queenofcardio]

No, i dont think so

[CubaPirate]

Yes my boss at work

[Kenkebuttery]

Interesting

[CubaPirate]

It certainly was

[robocop666]

Like Edge and Lita?

[Kenkebuttery]

Who and who

[exitseven]

no, that never happened to me.

[loveslongnails]

Darlin. that's NOT forbidden love. :)

[WonderingManII]

No because everyone hates me. lol

[ChicoFromThe305]

I don't think so lol

[Kenkebuttery]

How you don't know🤣

[ChicoFromThe305]

I'm joking I do know, I've never had a lover 😂

[Kenkebuttery]

Say wut 🤨

[ChicoFromThe305]

Oh this 😂

[Kenkebuttery]

Yup this one

[Kelly6]

@Kenkebuttery yes always

[Anonymous]

Maybe. It’s complicated.

[DirtyOldMan777]

yes several, currently 4 right now.

[msc545]

My ex-girlfriend's younger sister...

[bananathunder]

yeah a couple of times lol

[Anonymous]

No, I never had any kind of lover.

[jaecifer]

Yes a couple of times

[Alex-Snow]

Not yet

[dudeinohio]

Fortunately, no.