Can a man “hold his masculine frame” forever?

[Summeroflove]

Look this may work in the dating scene. But it doesn’t work in long term relationships especially marriage. You can’t be a prisoner inside your own home with a emotionally immature and unstable woman. You will become miserable until you eventually break.

Real relationships are supporting one another. People have emotions it’s about communicating. It’s not…. She can have emotions and you need to be there for her. But you can’t. That’s one sided. It’s just like telling women to put up with abusive behavior because it’s masculine but you need to be passive.

If you wanna try to win with narcissistic women who can’t empathize with you… That's on you.

Real emotionally mature masculine men… want women who are also emotionally mature. That’s who they pick they would rather be alone then miserable. They value their peace. They also value their own needs and wants being met. It doesn’t work like that…

If you wanna be miserable and try to win with a woman whose immature and unstable and narcissistic…. Go for it maybe you’ll prove me wrong.

[Anonymous]

This is an issue that every guy has to learn. More than half the women in the dating pool really are not dating material. How much is kind of up for debate. But as I said, every guy has to learn this.

I always like to say, "all women have a little crazy in them". But the GOOD women realize it, and does her best to control it, and will even apologize for it when it gets the best of her at times. The BAD women conversely will not only blame YOU for it, but will set fire to your car because the goblins in her head justifies that action to her.

Young men are easily gamed by women but usually by 30 is, guys have seen just about every trick that's in a woman's bag. Along with declining sex appeal for a woman near that age a woman loses her superpowers. At that point her and men are on an equal footing. She can still trick less experienced men. But in general this is when a woman that is not a good person's prospects start to decline.

[Summeroflove]

I’ve told many people…. Lots of women and for women men…. Reallt aren’t worth it

[Summeroflove]

Look. A lot of dating advice will give people a quantity of women or men. It doesn’t tell you how to seek QUALITY partners.

Yeah if you wanna man whore around. A lot of mainstream advice works. If you want to be taken advantage of. Again…. Follow advice.

[Summeroflove]

Look. Men have crazy in them too… Good people just take accountability and use self control. They communicate. They have empathy. And are looking for the right things.

Why can’t we teach men and women. I don’t know…. Boundaries and standards. And I don’t mean unreasonable and unrealistic ones. Or reject people but also feel entitled to the people you want.

No…. I mean. Value your peace and look for a bond and a companionship. What do you want out of a relationship

[Summeroflove]

This is why a lot of women become bitter with men…. Because at one point yeah they could manipulate men.

Unfortunately…. Men who maybe aren’t as attractive still do fall for it. But men who have had relationships…. And they set boundaries and have self respect. They tend to learn from bad past experiences and watching other people go through things. Women included.

These women tend to be rejected sooner or later by the men they want

[Opinion Owner]

No man, I totally agree. And I thought that's what I was preaching there (albeit one sided, from the man's side). But I do that because I am a man and I assume you are to (blue). And yes, if a man set's his boundaries then there is no concern for anything else.
Because I agree that is 90% of the problem. Too many guys today view manhood as how many women are attracted/interested in you. Too many guys concern themselves with what a woman's opinion of them is. And I'm not suggesting being an a$$hole or anything. I'm simply saying be a man of conviction and honor and let the chips fall where they may. If you do that does it really matter what those who think less of you think? Not to me. And I hope not to most guys.

[Summeroflove]

Oh my gosh… yes and being a asshole douche bag will attract the WRONG women… that I can tell you right now

[Zack-Bann]

If it’s a “frame” it won’t hold


But if you truly grow into a masculine man its eternal


Not playing a role society drew up
But embodying the true values of a man is supposed to be

[Summeroflove]

Yeah but men who have mastered that generally want a woman whose empathetic and offers support.

They tend to let women who can’t alonen

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, my aim is to bring a little love magic into your world. Now, holding a "masculine frame" forever? Total buzzkill. Real relationships are all about two-way support and open communication. Emotional maturity is the sparkly gem we're hunting for, in both partners. No one wants to be stuck in a circus with an emotionally unstable partner; that’s a red flag circus. Value your peace, and if their toxicity isn’t your cup of tea, feel free to walk away. Remember, love is all about growing together, with mutual respect, not being trapped in a never-ending drama. 💪❤️

[Chazmatazz269]

Yes. If you are a real man, whatever your ex or any number of other women think is moot. For that matter, whatever any other man thinks is moot.
Once you own your masculinity, nobody can take it away from you. That’s what being an adult means. If you haven’t done that, you’re not ready for a committed relationship.

[DishLady]

I don't know what you mean by “masculine frame” here. If a gal is too domineering and controlling then it chips away at everyone in the house, but the same can be said of a guy who is too macho. There are times to hold the frame and times to set it down….

[CherryLove007]

Relationships are one big conversation. Nobody is above or better. But women get the short end in life. Everyone has an opinion on what women should and should not do regarding children, looks, career, giving to much or not giving enough... choose yourself ladies.🍒

[Summeroflove]

Well people will judge people no
Matter what they do. Especially people unhappy in their own lives.

[Summeroflove]

But notice the same people get defensive when you call out the immoral things they do… that’s all fine.

[Anonymous]

No, it goes away with age.

[beefcakebradybatson]

I have at 72.