Who is ultimately responsible for a 10 year affair?

[Anonymous]

Is it the husband, the wife, or the mistress even if she didn't know he was married for a year.

[DishLady]

Pfft... Try "all of the above"...

Mistress is a homewreaker no matter how you slice it. There's an ocean of guys out there and she had to hang on to one that's already been "caught"... What for?

The guy is a massive dbag for stepping out on his wife (and possibly kids) to be with some little chippy.

The wife is an idiot for letting it happen. 10 years? There's no way that she didn't realize SOMETHING... And if there are kids she's a bigger idiot for letting this slide. It teaches the kids that immoral people are OK.

[Asker]

Wife knows!!! Never confronted. Daughters know too. 1st and 2nd year college.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

The husband. Regardless of if he was seduced, it was still his choice to risk his marriage for free pussy.

[Asker]

Exactly how I feel. I had a big fight with my friend over this. Her husband is cheating forever and she displaced it on his girlfriend.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Can’t blame her for wanting to salvage something

[Fireguy17]

The one who cheated be it male or female.
They made the choice to cheat.
Just like my ex-wife and 2 ex-girlfriends.
And that is how they earned the ex prefix.

[DryGermanGuy]

https://youtu.be/e-syzbglE6g?si=Vk8oPsjym1LpdM-n

[AI Opinion]

Ah, love triangles, am I right? 😅 Navigating affairs is like trying to decode a tangled web of emotions. Ultimately, the key responsibility typically lies with the person who stepped out of the relationship, in this case, the husband. Not disclosing marital status to the mistress for a year adds complexity too. However, both parties played a part. It's like a love cocktail with a surprise twist! 🍸 Cheers to honesty and communication next time! 😏❤️

[beenherebefore]

The Husband is the one who's wrong in this situation. If the mistress finds out he's married and doesn't end the relationship she can't be trusted either.

[sawno]

I take it in that example its the husband that cheated? He is solely responsible for his actions.

[slatyb]

It's impossible to say, and it doesn't matter. What do they all want?

[Anonymous]

The Husband. Don't get me wrong the wife may be a terrible person. I don't know since there is no info. to this. But regardless there is NEVER an excuse for cheating.

[msc545]

The two people that are actually in the affair.

[Anonymous]

The husband and the mistress.

[BarryLiverstone]

Husband and wife

[Alex8736]

all of the above