Do you believe in soulmates, love at first sight or twin flames? How do you know? How does it feel for you?

[Anonymous]

Do you remember how it feels like if you ever felt it?

[ohsheeT]

Yes i remember , and I will always remember because that has helped me become who I am today and understand the energy that we all have , because that's what we're made out of energy

But if you ever get that experience , it's going to be the most mind blowing beautiful thing you you have ever felt or became a part of

You could be on the east coast , i'm on the west coast , and we could call each other on the phone , and it would feel like we're standing right in front of each other , there's a very energy flows through you.

The mind-blowing thing is you can be talking about something and finish each other sentence. If you are online talking, same thing at the same time that you're going to say something. They just sent you a message saying the same thing, and I mean that It's just about every time that you talk

And experience a lot of deja vu things

Here's the thing about all that is, we are all from energy. We all have 9.9% of the same DNA\nIt's genes that are different from our parents
But if you are in tune on who you are and you understand energy , then it doesn't really matter , any two people can do this depending on who you are when you were born you could do this very easy. . but depending how you were raised what you went through how you were loved and taught about life you either keep some of it or you lose it all you dont really lose it you just file it away

And one day somebody will come into your life and you will feel this again , that's why people say , soul mates because of the feeling that you get when you're around that person

And sometimes if you're around kids , it's really gonna come back to you because they they still have that and they will follow you around like little puppy dogs

And pets.\nCats and dogs will do the same thing. If you go over to somebody's house, they, too will follow you around, because they know who you are same with little kids know exactly who are they? They feel that energy within them , and it's a beautiful thing

So if you think you have lost it and you want to feel it start understanding energy, because that's what it is, it's a frequency of love, gods love. That spiritual is what it is, but what will blow you When you do understand it. And like I said , you could be on the east coast , i'm on the west coast , and we could talking online , or even talking down the phone , and it is beautiful because of the energy and the emotion and the feeling that comes with it

[Asker]

I kind of get it
I am in a ldr

[ohsheeT]

To be honest, I think everybody should go through a long distance relationship. Because the connection is 10 times more intense than person. To person connection. And really touching or really kissing when you go through a long distance relationship, I believe you feel and you see things deeper than most people after so
But the soul, mate and the twin flame are to the most beautiful feelings, too, and\n I believe that's what we strive for is being connected that deep with somebody.

[Asker]

So true 👏👏💯

[ohsheeT]

But i'm also an empath, so I feel people's energy and emotion and that feeling that I get with a soul mate or a twin flame is the same feeling that I get with an empath, another empath no I don't know how many twin flames you can have in life. But I have had two experiences with two girls that is totally blew me away and both those connections were the same depth where we can answer each other's questions before we were even asked or we had the same thoughts at the same time as we were texting to each other and becoming one with them. I mean, totally one with them that experience alone. Me away

[Asker]

Sounds like an amazing experience. I had to kiss some frogs before i started to realize what love is supposed to feel like.

[ohsheeT]

Well, I'm sure that I was a frog before LOL. Yeah, the most powerful thing about love. Did I have learned is you have to love yourself 100%? You have to know the insides and the outsides of it because When you get together with somebody is the depth of love that you have towards yourself that helps you understand the person that you're with.\n Because when you truly love yourself.\n There's not even any needs for boundaries. Or really anything? Because it's all based off of that and there is no ego involved, it's just truth and love. There's an art to it it's almost like being free. That's how beautiful it is.\n And then even making love, it gets so intense and is so beautiful. That when you're finished, you both go into an out of body experience that is mind-blowing for 20 to 30 and in that place it is so peaceful, so spiritual and each and every time that you do go there, it just gets better and better. I don't think there's been too many people that even know this or have been there before

[Asker]

So far it feels like that now. The love growing each day. But its also scary... because I know how past relationships hurts even tho it was not very deep love. So imagining how deep this current love is, if something happens, it would probably hurt more than being in hell. I would rather being tortured physically than getting to experience that.

[ohsheeT]

Okay, I'm gonna try this again. I've written this 3 times and I keep writing too many words. I understand the pain that you're talking about. And you're right, but I have a theory about that. When you love yourself, I mean, the deepest love. It means you understand everything about you and you understand everything about love. And that it takes 2 people to love, it takes one person to mess up and you can't make anybody love you and you have to ask yourself before you even start, if this doesn't work out, will I be okay? And of course, you will say, yes, but like you said, The pain that comes with it is torture and I think I can tell you why

[ohsheeT]

And it's basically because when 2 people get together, first of all, we have anything and everything we've ever wanted, it's right inside of us, we just have to open up the door to get to it when you are in love with somebody and you do something together and they make you happy, you think it's them giving you these feelings of love. But in reality, it's you giving yourself those feelings. The persons opening up these new doors for you to experience things. But you're the only person besides, it can give you that love or anger or madness depression, what have you you're the only one inside they can do that? We love being around the person. We love the way they make us feel , and we give that feeling to ourselves and people think that's love , and it is to the point maybe , but what happens break up

[ohsheeT]

And when you break up and you have put everything into it, and if if you did connect, and if there is a bond that is your energy, because we are all made of energy, a trillion particles of energy, and you feel all these emotions and you might not be able to sleep or eat, you're just depressed. You don't wanna do anything you hurt. And it's not you that hurts, it's your energy. It's the real you, it's the energy that when you pass away, it grabs the hold of your soul, your spirit, your knowledge, everything that you know. And it Bixby the next dimension, wherever we go, but that energy mourns The energy of the person you were with, because your energy fell in love too. And when they're not together , because energy bond is one of the most beautiful things you're ever going to feel , but hey fall inlove it's not in your control anymore , l o l to appoint

[ohsheeT]

And that's just a very powerful love, but when you truly understand love and truly understand yourself that will happen, but not like what you're talking about, being devastated in living in hell, because I know what you mean, I've been there, I've done that that's why I had to figure out why I felt the way that I felt because Even though that was me, but it's not me. I'm a much stronger person than I look at things deeper. I mean, I would be okay but there is something inside of me that just made me sick it. It was controlling me because of the pain that it felt I felt And once I understood that it was energy, it just changed everything. Now. I'm not saying that, I'm right. I mean, just because I think it or feel it doesn't mean I'm right for me, I'm right for me, because I went through it piece by piece by piece to try to understand it because That's sick that you feel that hurt that you feel it's painful but it just wasn't me. I mean, I can hurt for a week. A month , the way that I was

[Asker]

In a short way, what you mean is= How long you hurt depends on how long and deep your energy bonded?

[ohsheeT]

Yes kind of it's almost like when you're talking to yourself, you have to tell yourself that you have to accept it, you have to acknowledge it, and you have to accept it. And then it starts dissipating a little bit, but if you want to feel something very, very strange and weird. Yes , when you're going through this , go see that person again and watch out the inside of your body , just changes and melts , and goes every different direction

And it also has to do with how deeply you love yourself , the deeper you love , yourself means the deeper understanding that you have about love and how deep that respect to yourself is

Cause when you deeply love yourself, you know, all the rights, all the wrongs and you can analyze it and say, no, I'm not going to feel this way because of this reason. But when you make it about somebody else and you're not even thinking about yourself, then that love that you have towards them, it hurts, heard as much if you understood the love that was inside of you. It's hard to explain, but
When you truly love yourself and you break up , it's a whole different world than when you don't really love yourself , you love that other person , it's a whole different feelings and emotion

[uzumymw]

Definitely! Tho I believe there are multiple soulmates for everyone and it depends on what you do in life if you will meet them

I have met two of my soulmates but at the wrong time

I hope everyone meets their soulmate and that it works out to be the right time and place

[Asker]

So its possible to have multiple soulmates? Did you love one deeper than the other?

[uzumymw]

I believe in that yea!
When I met my first soulmate I didn't know my second soulmate yet and as time passed I lost contact with the first one
The feeling of soulmate is still there but I feel love for both equally

[Asker]

Ohh wow that's interesting.. I didn't know it was possible

[uzumymw]

I believe it is possible
Your soul mate could be right around the corner

[Asker]

I believe my current partner is my soulmate

[uzumymw]

That is great! Hope your partner and you are happy together and enjoy being soulmates

[Asker]

That's so nice of you. Thanks you for your blessing🥰may you be blessed too everyday🥰

[DecentMan]

Yep I think you can indeed have 2 soul mates and this can sometimes be dangerous ans difficult ofcourse if you develop deep feelings for both

[MontBlanc]

I think those ideas are romantic, but I see them more as feelings than destiny.

“Soulmate” can be someone you deeply align with.
“Love at first sight” is usually strong attraction plus curiosity.
“Twin flames” often describe intense connections that teach you something.

For me, real love feels steady, safe, and mutual , not just intense.
Intensity can spark it, but consistency proves it.

[Asker]

👏👏👏you do make sense

[lilBigPotato]

Nope. Especially love at first sight is just bs. You can feel attraction at first sight but love? Without knowing anything about the person? They could look 10/10 my type but that's no guarantee that they're not a massive turn off the moment they open their mouth. Love it sometime that develops over time unless you're extremely shallow.

[Asker]

Sounds more realistic

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to decode love, dating drama, and all those red flags and butterflies for you.

I don’t really believe in “one” soulmate, but I do believe in deep soul connections. Love at first sight feels more like instant chemistry, not instant love. For me, it felt like a magnetic pull, calm and exciting at the same time, like, “I know you,” even though I didn’t. That’s how it felt with my wife, and it grew into real love, not just a rom-com moment.

[Asker]

That sounda beautiful! Can it be one sided too?

[DecentMan]

I think it can yes because the other is not aware of th connection perhaps

[Asker]

Ohh I see

[AviatorTom]

Soulmates? No.

Love at Firs t Sight? Maybe, but in my relationships, if love developed, it took a while.

[Asker]

Who often fell in love first. Your partner or you?

[AviatorTom]

We guys tend to fall first...

[Asker]

I see

[DecentMan]

I think you can feel like someone is a soul mate yes , but it’s a changeable experience over time and your opinion can change over time because you can perhaps super impose what you want the person to be like over what they actually are , perhaps past life memories you are reigniting over that person. some people have a wonderful energy too that works with yours and that can feel perfect and suggest you have a linked soul for sure I think.

[Asker]

True, some past things are not easy to forget.

And its better to love the person as they are, not try to change them much or imagining or being bland ro how they really are like

[DecentMan]

Yes, completely agreed. And are you talking about a specific situation in your life? You would like to share.

[Asker]

Well people sometimes tend to be very blind to some toxic partner because of love. Pushing a way the bad stuff ans focusing on the good stuff until you are not blind anymore someday.

Also people tend to project their unrealistic fantasy partner on their current partner wanting then to be in that way

[Anonymous]

Not exactly, but some people are extraordinarily compatible. Most people never find such a person. How do you know? You don't, until you've known a lot of people and then are lucky enough to meet them. How does it feel? I don't know exactly. I'm currently in love with a considerably younger woman I met by chance when I sent her a note about something she published on the net. She's decades younger and an ocean away and I'm happily married but...

[Asker]

So you are happily married, but in love with someone else?

How does that work?

Are you living with your wife as friends and just tolerating each other? Maybe happily serving since marriage is complicated?

Ehh nevermind, its not my business😅

[Opinion Owner]

It's complicated. She's as sweet as can be, we've been together for a long time but there are things I can't share with her and I often feel lonely. Now I'm in a mutual admiration society with someone but we can't be together because of age and distance and prior commitment.

[Asker]

Damn, that's really complicated.
Sounds like your body is with your wife, but your heart and brain is with the other girl.

How come you can't clearly express yourself with your wife or rekindle your love?

Is your marriage love/life burning out?

[Opinion Owner]

No, it's continuing as ever and my social life is the best it's ever been.

[Asker]

That's interesting. Usually its the opposite.

[aceleon]

soulmate? yes

soulmates being romanticly involved? hell no.

your best friend or family member can be your soulmate too.

soulmate has nothing to do with romance or sexuality.

it is just 2 people who understands each other on a almost telephatical sense.

[Berethor]

I believe that love is overrated, for me there's a better path to power, it's not love, it's fury!

https://www.youtube.com/embed/KwSSuSh1DxA

[Asker]

Why is it overrated? In real life or in movies? What is fury? Is it dressing up like animal or something else?

[Berethor]

Fury is anger. Love is overrated in general, compatibility is more important than love.

[Asker]

Is that so? What if you are compatible as friends?

[Berethor]

Being compatible as friends and being compatible for a relationship is not the same.

[Asker]

True

[Nikki1989]

You can be strongly attracted at first sight, but to call it love is premature.

Soulmates exist, but they develop over time.

[Asker]

Ohhhh thanks for explaining

[Anonymous]

I believe in LUST at first sight. The odds of you meeting your soul mate in the true sense of the word are about the same as meeting a talking unicorn that gives you a winning lottery ticket.

[MontBlanc]

Lust is simple.
Connection is what scares people.

[Opinion Owner]

@MontBlanc If that were true, why is most of the world coupled up?

[MontBlanc]

Being together can happen easily.

Feeling truly understood by someone is rare.

[Asker]

People are always scared for real love, real connections, a person who truly understands you without even telling them. You just feel each other.

What people are scared of is losing important/beautiful things/rare things/people. What people are scared of is mostly losing what they never had. So people get scared to committing.

Like how good it feels to get wealthy when you ve been poor your whole life, but you get scared everyday to lose that.

It wouldn't hurt if you never experienced love

[Asker]

Lust is simple/cheap. You can find it anywhere and not just in people, but also in erotic books or movies or something that makes your blod flow such as a picture.

And lust according to me just makes you feel empty in the long run

[MontBlanc]

Lust may ignite quickly, but it fades.

Connection, true understanding is rare and demands more.

Most people chase what’s easy, fearing the depth they can’t handle.

It’s ironic is what they already have or could have is what scares them most.

That’s why real understanding lingers but lust, no matter how loud, eventually feels empty.

[Asker]

So true @MontBlanc

[MontBlanc]

Lust is loud, fleeting, and easy to claim.

True connection refuses to be owned and doesn’t bend to ego.

You can argue, push, or debate all you want, but depth remains, unshakable, and it certainly doesn’t chase.

[Opinion Owner]

@MontBlanc It's rare for any number of reasons, though I believe a big one is because the vast majority of people don't even truly understand themselves. How would anybody else truly understand you then, if you don't? I often end up observing this and telling people as gently as possible - you don't know yourself. You don't know what you want, let alone need

Even when you think you've found someone who really gets you, sometimes that's all in your mind too.

[Opinion Owner]

"What people are scared of is mostly losing what they never had (or had and thought they owned)." ---- You just defined jealousy, not fear of commitment.

[MontBlanc]

Jealousy, fear, desire, most parade them as insight, yet few recognize the truth without ego distorting every observation.

People convince themselves they understand, but often all they see are fragments, mirrors of their own assumptions, reflections of what they already think they know.

True connection doesn’t bow, chase, or need validation.

It quietly reveals what most are too blind to perceive.

I wonder, how many who claim understanding are truly seeing, and how many are just narrating their own theory back at themselves?

[Levin]

I've had spiritual experiences with women. So I would say, yes.

[CaptainSmartass]

I think you just know when someone's the one. Like you just "click", or something. When you feel comfortable around them, but also excited.

Simples...

[exitseven]

I knew my whole life that she was out there. When we met I knew it was her.

[Anonymous]

I have something like that. Remembering how it felt keeps me interested.

[beefcakebradybatson]

The first two and don't know much about the third.

[Anonymous]

No

I think there's many people out there for many people 😋

[NathanDavis]

I don't idealize these things...

[CuriousMufuxka]

I did until like the 4th time.

[Anonymous]

Yeah i do