Do you believe in soulmates? Why/why not?

[iiinsOMNIA]

Personally, I do. I'm also a hopeless romantic though lmfao.

I'd love to hear thoughts <3

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8 mo

This is my take. There are a lot of people on earth, so just say that 100k (pulling numbers out of my ass) of them could potentially be your soulmate, someone you really just resonate with. But the earth is big, so you only meet one of them in your lifetime. That leaves enough room for some of them to die lol if that's what you're worried about. The one you end up meeting is your soulmate. The others could have been, had life played out differently, but it just didn't work out that way.

[ohsheeT]

I believe that we are also mates because we all come from the same place I believe

I also believe in energy and depending on the frequency of our energies with each other we feel things deeper we see things deeper that we might with someone else
my whole life there's probably been maybe seven eight people that I have an instant connection with

The moment we looked into each other's eyes we knew that there was something


The moment we spoke to each other we knew that there was something
And what I mean by that is I can tell everything about them in a heartbeat it says if I am them they are me

we are so familiar with each other I don't know if it's past lives I don't know if it's a twin flame because I still don't understand that but I know there is a deep rooted connection

there is a love there is a bond there is something so freaking beautiful
And I mean it is kind of scary at times when this happens

The thing is is I can connect with anybody but those seven or eight people there is a powerful connection that is just blows me away and I've always wanted to understand that or understand why that is
But they all come and go out of your lives I'm talking to one right now who we are identical and I've only tried this with one person and that is every time I think about her within the weeks period of time she will end up calling me and that's just strange to me

The one that I'm talking to right now still is we are bonded we are friends and I mean it's just truly a special relationship

And when you can have these relationships like this that are so pure so good so unreal it teaches you really about unconditional love when you can see and feel yourself through somebody else's eyes it's just really a beautiful thing

[ohsheeT]

So what number did you pick

[inhua]

soulmates sound great on paper but these days, modern society makes it extremely difficult for soulmates to exist especially when there are bad people everywhere and not just criminals

bad people can exist in the media, our entertainment, amongst our peers who would dissect you or your soulmate as to why you shouldn't be together

soulmates should be able to look past one's physical appearance, finances, popularity and other superficial factors but these factors can not be glossed over by any human being because these factors arrive in the natural order of how we perceive things

[WiccanLady2023]

Soul mate is a modern term & become popular with the rise of drugged out of their skulls hippies. It's why you'll often find some of the whackiest websites going on about soul mates & "twin flames" and other terms - the people aren't quite in their right mind.

So no I don't believe in soul mates.

I believe in older concepts that could be called "soul mate" which have existed for thousands of years and arose in ancient China during the feudal era and also ideology that can be found in ancient religions like Hinduism.

Soul mate in the modern druggie concept - no way in hell do I believe that garbage.

[Staximus]

@wiccanlady2023 just because mumbo jumbo is older does not make it any more valid in the grand scheme of mumbo jumbo

[Anemone978]

I believe there is soulmates but mine must of died or I didn't give him a chance lol

[iiinsOMNIA]

:(( you'll find him one day

[AviatorTom]

I don't believe in the soulmate concept. I think there are many people in the world, not just one soulmate, who would make an excellent partner for you.

[iiinsOMNIA]

I think so too, I think there are lots of potential soulmates, but the one you end up with is THE soulmate

[magiusX26]

they exist but there is a dark truth with that. not everyone has one nor does everyone have a true person out there for them. lets be honest, there ate also some out there who get to gave someone even though they themselves are so awful of a person that they really do not deserve someone (think charles manson, adolf hitler, that mom who drove her car with all her kids into a river in the 90s, jeffrey dahmer, jeffrey epstein)

[loveslongnails]

Yes, but I assure you it's not how you or anyone else I've ever spoken to on the subject views it. If you ask what it is, I'll tell you it's a long and involved explanation, and you should message me privately if you'd like to hear more.

[iiinsOMNIA]

Please tell me!

[loveslongnails]

Write to me.

[loveslongnails]

As we talked about, simply resonating with someone, in and of itself, is no indication that you could be soulmates. You're going to meet a LOT of people in your life that you resonate with.

[Xysmiles]

nope because nobody is special but you can definitely still find someone, fall in love, and live happily together. Sometimes the person you thought was your soulmate isn't everything you thought they would be. And sometimes they die and you find someone else. I'd say lose your ego and need to control your whole life and let God handle where your life goes.

[Simslover92]

I do but sadly my boyfriend doesn't. Does that make us not soulmates I wonder?

[iiinsOMNIA]

I think you can still be soulmates :))

[Simslover92]

I'm hoping so because I love him a lot and feel like we could be. :)

[iiinsOMNIA]

So cute ;-; I'm rooting for you!!!

[Simslover92]

Aww thanks! ☺️

[Nikki1989]

I know they are real because I have two of them, but the meaning of “soulmate” varies depending on your interpretation.

[iiinsOMNIA]

Exactly!

[jahaims]

They don't exist. Soulmates would have to be a new thing for them to exist. Before modern transportation most people didn't travel further than 20 miles from where they were born. So either people magically had soulmates within 20 miles of where they were born or they don't exist.

[iiinsOMNIA]

Or they did exist, but never found each other? Or perhaps since soulmates are destined to find each other, the universe made sure they were born close to each other? I don't know, it's all very theoretical

[jahaims]

Destiny doesn't exist. If Destiny existed, you would be able to sit in one spot forever, and the same things would happen as if you didn't. Also, you completely didn't understand the explanation.

[MementoMori777]

Yea because I have hopes on it and I do see myself marrying and having children one day, I believe everyone should have hopes in love and romance in general

[MementoMori777]

Yea and the bigger the number of the reality of possible soulmates (the real amount that wasn't pulled out of anyone's ass) the bigger the number of the ones you meet might be, I believe everyone has a few throughout their life that mistakes were made, because I believe everyone can be compatible with millions in our world, just mistakes are a problem

[gothbxtch]

yes, and i do think that people have multiple potential soulmates.

[iiinsOMNIA]

I think so too

[menina]

No, I don't believe in soulmates. If that was true, then some people wouldn't spend their entire lives in relationships that didn't work out.

[Anonymous]

Because I am too practical to think like that. The Government considers marriages like business contracts. So I also see them from that POV as well.

[iiinsOMNIA]

That seems like a pretty cynical way of looking at it 😭

[Opinion Owner]

It is a good thing for girls as the whole legal system is sided with girls in this regard. So you can think of romance. But in today's world, men simply cannot.

Not only cynical, but weird as well. But at least it clears the whole picture for me.😊

[iiinsOMNIA]

Wait, I'm interested now. Why is there a difference between men and women in this topic? How come you think there isn't room for men to have romance?

[Opinion Owner]

Men can participate in romance. No problem about that. All I say is that if things go south, men are trapped in the legalities while women may just get a warning or something. At least that is how it is in my country. No matter who is at fault here, men are the ones who take the crap like false rape, DV, and dowry cases. And many such cases where the woman does not need to show any kind of proof.

In such cases, men are guilty until proven innocent. Whereas in other normal cases, innocent until proven guilty.

[Anonymous]

No, I have lived through extreme torment in my life. Even though I was there for people in need, animals. You come on your own, go on your own.

[iiinsOMNIA]

That sound like a very sad way to view life :(( don't you think there's life is too meaningful to simply be "easy come easy go"?

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I do yes. My soulmate is one of my best friends though.

[jjj101010]

No, what are the chances that of the 7billion people on the planet, u managed to meet your soulmate.

This covers it nicely

https://www.youtube.com/embed/Zn6gV2sdl38

[jimmy2]

Well kinda it death till we part and death sure parts us

[iiinsOMNIA]

I believe that there are soul ties between soulmates. After death, they are sure to reunite <3

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, it can happen when we least expect it to.

[Jmmmfi4]

Hypothetically yes but I know I'll never find mine

[iiinsOMNIA]

Aww, why not?

[TheSpaceGnome]

No, but I do think that the update you posted about there being x number of potential matches per person is accurate (minus any sort of souls, fate, or any other nonsense thrown in)

[Staximus]

I don't know. I haven't met mine yet, that's for sure.

[clampfan101]

Same here.
I just wish I was right about who she was…