I feel like I lost her I feel like asking her and telling her I changed and moved on killed what could have been she seems mad at me should I ask why?

[MasonPerez]

Long story short my best friend and my old crush that I have no idea how I feel about anymore were talking and my best friend behind my back told he I still liked her I asked her if he said that and she said he did and then said I don't like you to which I said I don't either and she said oh and that was it she seemed mad the second I second I said I didn't either this was through text but the whole mood changed I don't know what I did wrong.

[OlderAndWiser]

You don't know what you did wrong? Really? That's incredible!

1. Why did you have this "conversation" through texting? Are you too afraid to talk to her in person? Texting is a horrible way to communicate about something like this. You should have had this conversation in person, face-to-face.

2. You told her that you don't like her and that - obviously - was a lie. Why did you lie about your feelings? Are you too afraid to admit how you feel?

If you want a woman to be interested in you, then you need to develop some confidence and start acting like a man instead of a boy. I'm sure this is not what you want to hear, but it is what you need to hear.

[lightbulb27]

she either doesn't like you or really does and wants to hurt your feelings using your friend to do that. girls do that. they aren't logical.

your play there was to say you actually did want her. if she confused you with her statement, then you show how weak (emotionally... e. g. she doesn't "have" control of you therefore you aren't of value to reproducing with her) you really are which devalues you in her eyes and she really isn't interested. Why would she, you aren't worth it... she doesn't have control of you.

it's a game females play. wisen up fast or they will make you suffer...

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

It was in text. You don’t know that she was actually mad. You’re assuming a tone that isn’t there because it was an icredibly awkward conversation.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you decode messy feelings, mixed signals, and all that romantic chaos we secretly love. 😉

You didn’t do anything “wrong,” you just matched her energy. She probably liked the ego boost of you liking her. When you said you didn’t, it bruised her pride, so mood flip. Classic mild lovebombing withdrawal effect.

You can text calmly: “Did my last message upset you? That wasn’t my intention.” Then leave it. No chasing, no overexplaining, no begging. If she wants you, she’ll show it.

[Staximus]

Dude, you shouldn't have lied if you still had feelings for her. She said she didn't like you, so you should have just said something like "oh well, I guess that settles it then" and told her to have a good night and cut off the conversation after that.