How do you make the first move to kiss a man?

[MissSunshine2]

I don’t even know if I should or if I should discuss it first and get consent? Then, should it be a brief, open mouthed kiss, or a French kiss?

I have limited experience in committed relationships. Most of mine were shorter term.

[BobbieBoy666]

To make the first move and kiss a man, focus on building physical closeness and using clear signals to ensure he is comfortable and interested.

1. Set the Scene and Build Tension
Creating the right atmosphere makes the move feel natural rather than forced.
Get Alone: Find a private or intimate setting, such as a quiet walk or during a movie, to avoid distractions or pressure from others.
Freshen Up: Ensure your breath is fresh with mints or gum, and keep your lips moisturized with lip balm (skip sticky gloss).
Break the Touch Barrier: Start with light, casual contact like touching his arm while laughing, holding hands, or brushing hair out of his face.

2. Send Visual and Physical Signals
Men often look for "green light" signals before a kiss.
The "Triangle Gaze": Look into one eye, then the other, then down at his lips before returning to his eyes.
Close the Distance: Lean in close so your faces are just inches apart. If he doesn't pull away, it is a strong sign of interest.
Use Your Lips: A subtle bottom-lip bite or a soft smile while looking at him can signal your desire.

3. Initiate the Kiss
When the tension is high, you can choose a direct or subtle approach.
The Direct Approach: Simply ask. Phrases like "Can I kiss you?" or "I'd really like to kiss you right now" are respectful, confident, and can be very romantic.
The Subtle Approach: While talking at a close distance, lower your voice, maintain eye contact, and slowly lean in.
The Physical Move: Tilt your head slightly to avoid bumping noses, close your eyes as you get close, and press your lips gently against his for a few seconds.

4. During and After the Kiss
Hand Placement: Rest your hands on his neck, shoulders, or chest to create a deeper connection.
Keep it Simple: For a first kiss, stick to soft, light pressure without immediately using your tongue.
The Follow-Up: Pull away slowly, open your eyes, and smile. A simple compliment like "That was nice" or "You're a good kisser" helps ease any lingering nerves.

These resources provide actionable advice and visual demonstrations for making the first move to kiss someone:

[loveslongnails]

Where did you copy and paste this from? Cosmopolitan?

[OlderAndWiser]

Give him a hug. . . a full body hug that lasts longer than a friendly hug. Put both arms around his waist. Pull your head back, so you can look him in the eye, but keep your arms around him. Lick your lips very subtly, look at his lips, then tilt your head and close your eyes. You want to have this happen in a way that he appears to have initiated the kiss. Bit, if he doesn't soon move in to kiss you, say to him, "I really want a kiss from you." If he has any interest at all, he will kiss you.

[Sangita93]

After our engagement, we were meeting once or twice in a week, either at my parental home, or at his parental home, or occasionally in the park or a temple. Because of our family culture and social norms, we were observing fairly good discipline – just holding hands or eagerly watching each other. He made the first move, about two months after our engagement, I had gone to his parental home, and had diner together with his family. He came to get me at my parental home, and on the way, he stopped the scooter, and suddenly he kissed me – lip to lip. I was stunned, excited and feeling some unknown stimulations. From his body language, I understood that he was expecting me to kiss him, and it was a hard moment for me. I kissed him – lip to lip, he hold me close tightly for a minute and then we both highly excited move to finish our journey to home. We both still remember our first kiss and excitements. This was a first step creatin deep intimacy and close physical proximity. After that we kissed each other whenever we got the chance, and some light touching. For second and subsequent kisses, I was leaning in slowly sitting very close to him and smiling, and sometimes, verbally asking something odd for a reward kiss, with confidence and showing clear interest. Usually, I was holding his hand and putting on my breasts, to build tension, and move in with eyes closed, leaving no space for him to bridge the gap. This was all because of our social framework and norms.

[Screenwriter]

If it seems that the mood is right, lean in. If someone's open to a kiss, they'll meet you halfway. If you see the person pull back, then the kiss isn't welcome.

Don't start with a French kiss. Just a simple soft mouthed kiss. It'll progress to more if the two of you are into it. Good luck.

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to decode relationships, flirt a little, and make things way less confusing 😏

You absolutely can make the first move. Sit closer, hold eye contact, maybe touch his arm, then softly say something like “Can I kiss you?” That’s sexy, confident, and consensual. Start with a gentle closed-lip kiss, then let *him* deepen it if the vibe is right. No need to rush straight into full French make-out mode. Let the chemistry build.

[ohsheeT]

You whisper come here i want to tell you a secret you get your lips almost touching his and then in slow motion, just, I mean, just barely barely barely barely touching back off the cheek with your lips, up to the ear and whisper. I want you to hold me tighter. Drag your lips back across his cheek to his lips and kiss. And when you're finished , say , sorry , I forgot what I was gonna tell you , oh wait I just remembered can I tell you and do all over again

[AviatorTom]

If you want to kiss the guy, just move in and kiss him, gently, on the lips. His reaction will let you know if the kiss should continue or not, and how intimate it should be.

If you want, you can tell him, "I'd like to kiss you" first. It's up to you.

[Avicenna]

LOL, just do it. But give some smaller kisses before going to the French ones.

[madhatters4]

that moment, that awkward moment of silence when you both find yourselves looking into each other's eyes. you'll know it when it happens and it probably has happened already.

when that moment comes, simply lean your head towards him, close your eyes and pucker up.

the first kiss probably doesn't need to be a french kiss initially, but if you start kissing try to just follow cues. if he opens his mouth, and you want to, you can open your mouth. if the kiss turns to open mouth, frenching is probably in the cards so go for it

[bobalife]

Well it depends if you wanna kiss him first or hint to him that you want him to kiss you. There are different ways, but I think an easy one is when you’re both having a good moment together and you’re starring into his eyes, then look at his lips, and back at his eyes with a big smile. Or if you are feeling daring… when you guys are hugging, you can kiss his neck gently and looked up at him. Another one is when you’re hugging and in a good mood together… you can get really close to his face just inches away while starring into his eyes and maybe his lips. But don’t kiss him. You can keep at that or playfully kiss his cheek/side of his mouth instead. It’s a small playful tease creating the tension and for him to kiss you first.

[slatyb]

Have you never been kissed? Almost all romantic kisses are open-mouthed kisses. I've never asked a woman whether they wanted to be kissed -- they give clear indications by getting physically close, and then I kiss her. But if your man isn't taking the hint, you could ask him "Why haven't you kissed me?"

[Zack-Bann]

Most of my kisses were technically initiated by the woman I was with


In an intimate moment when we’re both in close proximity she would stop talking, look me in the eye, and slightly lean forward


I would see that and understand that she wants a kiss then I would slowly lean in as well, hold the tension, and eventually proceed (or let her proceed)


After the first kiss all the other kisses are easy

[Berethor]

Well it safer to discuss it first, but he a man, so you can just french kiss him right away. :)

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/A_Man_Is_Always_Eager

[Dnice1]

Well here's what I'd do. Sit close to him or stand in front of him gaze up into his eyes place my hands either on his shoulders or cup his cheek and place my other hand on the back of his neck/head and caress him gently. Then lean in slowly and softly kiss him. 💋

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[MissSunshine2]

Not for now, thanks.

[TediumIsTheWorstPain]

Just pick your moment, and then, when the two of you are feeling comfortable, just make your move.

You can either move in fast, and catch him by surprise, or move in slow, and give him a chance to pull away if he's not ready to kiss you.

[loveslongnails]

There are very few wrong ways to try and kiss a man who likes you. My favorite was when she looked at me quizzically and said " C'mere, there's something on your lips, don't touch it". I said " What is it?" Then she pulled me close and planted a nice, soft moist kiss with the tiniest bit of suction, held it for a while, and said " ME " :) Yeah, I'm still with that girl !!

[Anonymous]

Firstly, don't ask for consent. It will just ruin the experience, for both of you. He's a man, it's not like he's going to press charges or something (like a woman might).

Wait for the a time when it feels right. I know that's subjective and impossible to explain, but just use your judgement.

Start with a closed-mouth kiss. If he's into it, he'll take it from there.

Best of luck to you two love birds!

[BadApple69]

There is no “me too” for men…. No men’s lib for men. You want to kiss a man…. Just do it. Maybe a small kiss to test the waters but for me personally… bring it on… whatever you got.

[Shy-boy53]

I think you just kinda know, well I have at the first time I’ve kissed ex’s. You just kinda stop and your brain just kinda tells you to do it and see. Luckily none have pulled away and slapped me yet 😂

[Anastasia4real]

It depends on your relationship time and how frank is you with your man, talking little romantic about bed love sure create a mood of kissing for both of you..

[MrChinaski]

A handhold first is a good barometer of mutual feeling. Not open mouthed or French, not brief, just soft lips.

I'll leave others to talk to consent. I've never asked. Nor have I ever misinterpreted.

[bowenw]

Try not to overthink it, just let it happen naturally when the time feels right. Make it a long or short kiss depending on how you feel and how he is behaving. Talk about it beforehand if that feels best for you.

[Theunfadeable]

Easy! Act natural and lean in close. When you’re making eye contact say, “I’m trying so hard not to kiss you right now” and he will probably kiss you before you kiss him. Works every time!

[exitseven]

I had a girl put her arms around me and hug me and then she sort of looked at the floor like she was embarrassed. It wass then when I realized what was going on so I kissed her.

[lightbulb27]

Oh no, I go to take out his legs, maybe a knee cap. take him by surprise. they like that. then jump on him!

[ABitShattered]

If you get the feeling he wants it lean in and kiss him. A trick that worked with my wife was saying something like "Your lips look so good I could just kiss them" when the moment felt right if that makes sense

[Unycorn]

I usually don't make the first move. One time on a first date. It felt as if we know and I forgot we don't and it was the first date.

[PeachyPie93]

Give him a peck pull back and see if he reciprocates lol

[Voldorac]

If everything on a date or meet-up goes right. The conversation is there, the intimacy of being close to one another, and then go for it. If it isn't in this stage yet, then you have equally as much responsibility to build it up as he does.

[Anonymous]

Just kiss him. Men love getting kisses from women. Ask first if makes you feel more comfortable. If he likes you, he won’t care if you ask or not. A brief kiss first. If he wants more, a French kiss.

[leva532]

Simply while talking with him when you are ready keep getting close to his lips close your eyes and give him a soft kiss and stop. If he wants to kiss you will do it madly.

[fish5505_87]

I don't know lol. I have been kissed first by the female, it's something you just feel!

[dragoblack]

Just ask if he wants to kiss/make-out

[Anonymous]

Take initiative, some guys are shy.

[moviedude714]

shocking question

[LunarEclipse433]

Of course you should