How to get a shy guy to kiss you first/making the first move?

[Anonymous]

I've feelings for him and I'm sure that he has feelings for me too, but I want him to make the first move for me to be sure that he's feeling the same way.

But how do you get a shy guy to kiss you first? We spend quite much time together and whenever I ask him if he wants to hang out, he really lights up and the other way around

[Anonymous]

It is hard and if he is not ready he won't make the move. I took a bit to long to kiss my girlfreind but she was happy that I waited until I was comfortable with her to do so. If your more open and experienced sometimes take control. Not to much or to often. Maybe hint to him that you want to be kissed? Have a romantic night and let it slip your hoping for a kiss.
It is hard with a shy guy

[HGG3805]

Make the first move. If he hasn't to this point he probably won't.

[Asker]

Does it count if he asked me out to the movies the other day? haha

[Glop65]

Yes it does.

[HGG3805]

You bet that counts. Be sure to tell him how much you enjoyed spending time with him. Drop a BIG hint that you would like to do that again. Or take the bold step of YOU setting up the next date.

[Anonymous]

Go for a kiss stop half way make him "reach" you

[OlderAndWiser]

Do you share hugs? If not, start doing that. Next when the time is right, like the end of a date, you hug him - full body hug. Then you pull your face back but keep your arms around him. Look into his eyes and give him that look that says "I'm all yours! Come take me!" Make a slight movement towards his face. If he doesn't kiss you then. . . you've got problems.

[Anonymous]

Why should he have to make the first move? I'm sure as a shy guy he is wishing you would make the first move. Why does he have to be the one to overcome his fear, but you get a free pass? Just because you want it? I'm sure he wants you to be the first mover too.

When you figure out what would make YOU overcome your fear, then you'll know what will help him over come his fear.

[H2OHydrox]

Find a way to get extremely close to him. Play fight, cuddle, whatever. And then just be upfront and tell him that he needs to make the first move

[Logorithim]

You might be waiting awhile if you want him to make the first move. Take the bull by the horns and kiss him.

[meatballs21]

Just make the first move and stop playing silly games.

[Tobias0309]

Well, he prbably Thinks the same way, but isn't sure , so i would probably make the first move

[MasterAdvice]

Show the signals. For example when you are watching movies, look at him once in a while and look at his lips.

[Fleece]

Do something that makes it overtly obvious that you like him. My first girlfriend baked me a cake after I told her I didn't get one for my birthday. I got the hint.

[kronik84]

So many opinions, I'm having a similar problem so me being the guy does that mean I should make the first move. And do I just lean in and kiss her or do I say I wanna kiss you, I've done that before and it worked sooo...

[verybusyguy]

One you get a suitable answer tell the same to my future girlfriend

[FrenchyRomain]

you don't get him to do anything, you want something to happen you make it happen why wait for HIM to do it?

[FloatingInSpacee]

Whenever you get near his face with yours... smile and look at his lips. Thats how i figured it out.

[dread_space]

Show him your tits... Okay no... Maybe if he has the feeling he's losing you he will take the risk..

[CarpetDenim]

Don't fuckin play with people.

[dread_space]

It was a joke... And I'm kinda timid and that works with me... Because, without this trick I'm not sure about what I feel about a girl till this happens (sometimes)

[CarpetDenim]

There's much better ways to figure it out. If a girl threatens to break up with you or goes out and tries to make you jealous to get you to do something, she's manipulative and she's playing games with you.

[dread_space]

Thanks for the advice but I think you lost the point here, this is my opinion and she will choose whatever she wants, either showing tits, jealous stuff or anything else she wants, so a hug for the asker and for carpet... I hope your psychology diploma helps ya

[kcr02]

Hug him frequently. Watch his lips from time to time, when he is talking to u. Allow him to touch u r hair. Its one of the healthiest signal that a girl can give to a guy

[Nice222]

Just kiss him first and get it over with. Once he knows it is ok to kiss you he won't stop.

[elmerzoo]

Cuddle up close tell him he smells good hopefully. . And lean in.

[bondobilly]

Why dont you make the move if you have feelings?

[mitrajahany]

take him to a party and get him drunk

[CWStacks]

Ask him, "would you like to kiss me"

[Naeeee]

No you let him it make you be a little THOT kinda

[CarpetDenim]

Making the first move absolutely does not make you a thot. I know for a fact guys wish women took initiative more often.

[Nerdking]

I agree with you would be nice if i could nit deal with the pressure ever so often lol

[CarpetDenim]

Yeah, I've initiated just about everything in my relationship. He's a shy guy, but I don't mind one bit. It's pretty darn cute actually.