Is it true that men get bored when a woman loves them too much?

[Anonymous]

True

False

A total of 57 votes were cast: 12 girls and 45 guys. See detailed results

[MontBlanc]

I don’t think men get bored because a woman loves them too much.

The real issue is usually when love turns into losing yourself , when someone stops having their own life, boundaries, or individuality.

Healthy love should still leave room for both people to grow as individuals.

When 2 people respect each other and keep their own sense of self, love usually becomes something that deepens over time rather than something that gets boring.

[Agape93]

In my experience, they get comfortable, not bored.

[Crankor]

Nope. I believe this to be confused when the love is not reciprocated. Then I could see the guy getting bored since he never had any long term intentions to behind with. I have yet to know someone who ever complained about being loved "too much". But one thing to consider if your love languages are too different that what one thinks is showing love, that can be misinterpreted as something else

[Anonymous]

By definition of love, there can not be too much. Just as there are not "dead, deader, and deadest", it is binary yes/no when a person has already deceased (using this same example my first grade teacher used, the same day he called my painting diarrhea). ㅤ

[Opinion Owner]

When you read the bot's opinions, and by extension the majority of online opinions, you will get a list of dos and don'ts. It's like telling you how to be a plant: be green, grow, make oxygen etc.

Instead of telling you to just be a plant. It's something you become, you know? You can't paint yourself green and expect to behave like a plant.

So, love, it has nothing to do with trying to keep personal space and mystery like a to-do list.

Love is when individual, strong egos shine through spirit onto matter. When an "i" perceives a beyond-physical "you" and uses the the physical world to express the connection. You need an ego in order to be self sacrificial, or else there is no self, and with no spiritual perception there is no true "sacrificial".

When you kill the ego, you kill the only organ capable of doing the act of love.

So, when as doctor bot put it, you have "jealousy, personal space mystery" issues, it's the opposite of too much love. It is the absence of love because there is no ego in jealous people.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode love, drama, and all the spicy in‑betweens for you.

Men don’t get bored because a woman loves them “too much”; they get bored when that love feels smothering, insecure, or codependent. Healthy love feels supportive and attractive. Constant texting, jealousy, no personal space, and zero mystery? That’s when it starts to feel like a red flag, not a fairytale.

[ohsheeT]

That's\nFalse , there's no such thing as too much love

[Finchie40]

Maybe to some men but not all men , Me personally would love to be with a girl that loves me too much

[Simslover92]

Bored no, but if it becomes suffocating then bogged down yes.

[Master_Debator]

What is the love? If it can resemble being smothered, it's not boredom driving him away... it's just that bitch don't know how to entertain herself. I mean she does, but that involves cheating. Meanwhile young nugga just wants to play some Battlefield 6 and not have her all up on him... or some similar situation.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

No one is technically able to know what all men think in a specific scenario. We won't even agree on what this scenario truly is because "loving too much" is a controversial descriptor.

When "loving me too much" means loving me in a repeatedly anxious way, I will most likely suffocate.

[madhatters4]

some might. some don't

we can't make a blanket statement for all men. but my guess is most people (men and women) may find themselves bored at times in a relationship. i don't think it comes from a person loving them too much but just what can be sort of monotonous living at times. if people in a relationship feel bored they can easily spice things up by doing different things

[capriVib]

İt's the opposite: if a man loves a woman too much, she gets bored of him. 😂

https://youtu.be/R7C65H7pEms?si=NggLfOAikPRA7RkB

Actually, loving someone with a needy mindset and placing an exaggerated value on them naturally leads to them becoming distant and devaluing you. This is a well-documented psychological pattern.

[Nikki1989]

Men tend to say the opposite, but most aren't the sharpest crayons in the box even at their best.

[Anonymous]

No.🤦‍♂️

Like anything the potential is always there to take someone for granted. This is especially true if you did not choose a very good partner. Or if you just have unrealistic expectations from a partner. A person can only give what they can give.

[PolarPoint]

If it is not accept you completly , I think he can sometimes get bored. It is imortant that getting along as you are

[WonderingManII]

False. But if the Woman is constantly around us 100 percent of the time, we can get tired.

[LC75LC71]

Yes, there's an aspect of get off my nuts, granted girly batteries die out about 5 months in. Then the guy gets interested after she turned all that extra loving off.

[Sal_Monella]

Women believe that a man's adoration is weakness. It forfeits her respect because she feels she has him and does not need to respect him.

[Anonymous]

Some might. Some might not. Not all men are the same.

[Anonymous]

100% bullshit. Love him well and he will never get bored.

[Anonymous]

Maybe

If the girl remains hot and sexy he will love her

[Likes2drive]

I know I wouldn’t get bored of that

[Flower7]

Yes, it seems that way.

[exitseven]

False- it makes guys more attentive.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Pff no 💀

[qwerty2469]

That's when people stay married for 80 years.

[Anonymous]

I don't think so.

[Anonymous]

I hope not.

[Sammy098]

Nope

[Anonymous]

Never get bored