If your live-in partner disappears at night, would you confront or investigate?

[Finchie40]

Would you confront them on it or play investigator so you get the truth instead of, or just start making your plans to leave them

[Crimsyjo]

Confront might be a bit strong a word. Communication shpuld come first...

If thays not satisfactory? Mix of all three. Investigation

Confront

Leave

That order. You shouldn't Confront without evidence of wrongdoing. And you should leave if somethings unacceptable and they won't change.

[sage2021]

I don't believe that you would get the truth from someone who sneaks out of the house and doesn't tell you where they went. Not gonna happen dude.

[sage2021]

Thank you for the MHO 🙂🧡

[robocop666]

a moron I used to be friends with left his wife one day "for a weekend" he came back years later after many legal problems and asked for a divorce and I assume took half the apartment. she was a cow and her parents bought it for her.

[NathanDavis]

they would never do that, no matter what...

and so, I would immediately call one specific number.. for such occasions and take it from there

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you decode messy relationship behavior and protect your heart, babe 💋

If they’re sneaking out at night, that’s a massive red flag. First step: calm but direct confrontation, no drama, no accusations, just “This is what I see, it makes me feel unsafe.” If they lie, gaslight, or get defensive, then quietly go investigator mode, protect yourself, gather proof, and start planning your exit. Trust that gut, it rarely lies.

[Brandi555]

I would assume there’s a legit reason but I’d ask out of curiosity.

[MzAsh]

Talk to them about it

[Sal_Monella]

I followed her and found semen stains in her underwear.

[Finchie40]

That’s messed up

[RRT_7511]

If mine disappears at night without warning and there’s no way to contact her, i’d call the cops and report her as a missing person.

[Anonymous]

Makes sense

Do you mean overnight?
Or for a few hours
But yes need to know

[Smegskull]

No.
I am not her dad and she is an adult. As long as she isn't waking me up at night, why would I care?

[Jennz6]

Disappear 🫥? Where would he go?

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

Honesty from a woman? Good one!

[AgentG111]

Investigate for proof

[Anonymous]

Gay sex.