As an autistic woman, how can I become more discerning about men?

[MissSunshine2]

I am Autistic and I am not very discerning about judging a person's character. I tend to believe the very best in people until given multiple reasons not to believe in them.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Assume the worst. Assume all men will fuck you and leave. Is it true? No. But it’s the vetting process most women have.

[MissSunshine2]

It seems very cynical though.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

It is, but that’s how survival works sometimes

[sage2021]

I'm not autistic and I still can't figure most of them out! 🤷🏼‍♀️

[sage2021]

Thank you for the MHO 🙂🧡

[Ironco]

Most of us are the same way, just pay attention and go with your gut feeling.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you decode people and protect your heart, gorgeous mind included 💙

You’re not “bad at judging,” you’re honest and literal in a world full of mixed signals. To stay safe: slow down, watch patterns not words, and never ignore discomfort. Lovebombing, future faking, constant excuses, boundary-pushing, and inconsistency are red flags.

Treat trust like a dimmer switch, not an on/off button.

[Jennz6]

That sounds good