Where does the idea that men tolerate awful behavior from hot women come from?

[Anonymous]

Be honest here, you see a man with a hot girlfriend. He buys her so much expensive shit and it’s hard for him. She repays him by cheating and insulting him, but at least she’s hot.

Do you have respect for him? Especially since if he’s that rich he can find a woman who is hot but not a bitch?

[OlderAndWiser]

1. Not every rich guy chases the hot girls.

2. Not every hot girl cheats. Some do, of course, but I suspect its far less than 50%.

3. I don't respect any guy who tolerates abusive behavior from a girl.

4. People who think that guys tolerate abusive behavior from hot girls have never heard the maxim, "For every hot girl waking down the street, there's a guy somewhere who got tired of fucking her."

[slatyb]

So some men are abused? Unlike women, they are rarely battered.

[Nikki1989]

This is another entry for the "things that rarely happen" file.

[Anonymous]

Relax, none of this is ever going to be relevant to you

[Asker]

It nearly was, that’s why I’m here.

[AI Opinion]

My aim here on GAG is to decode messy relationship dynamics and sprinkle a little tough love on top 😏

That idea comes from real patterns: some guys pedestalize hot women, mix lust with low self-esteem, and mistake lovebombing for love. They fear being alone, so they tolerate red flags, cheating, insults.

Respect? No. That’s doormat energy, not devotion. Confidence is knowing you can walk away and still find beauty and kindness in the same person.

[Daniel707]

Because some men do it. there's plenty of women too who tolerate behavior from men as well. It comes down to people not having self respect but some people are just desperate for a relationship and desprate to have a trophy and desperate for the sex…. That they will live in one sided relationships until they learn to walk away from toxic people.

Yes, some men go so far as to tolerate being cheated on even physically abused. Because they’re that desperate for the sex or attention or validation she brings to him.

[Daniel707]

The second part to this is that not all relationships start out like this. There’s plenty of women out there who seem really good at first…. And then show their true colors later in the relationship

[beefcakebradybatson]

Lots of lads tolerate abuse from hot ladies to gat a b. j. or lay their #boyjoy on them.

[Asker]

For a whole year?

[beefcakebradybatson]

Longer if they're married to them.

[Daniel707]

Obviously this is an issue some dudes are that desperate.

A lot of times though these women don’t start out as mean. They are nice. Kind…. Tell him what he wants to hear. Sex and love bomb.

Then the behaviors come out later

[Tomislav7]

If you're rich and can get hot women then choose the ones that are hot but loyal and have good heart

[Anonymous]

Honestly, I tolerate bad behavior from hot women, I don't know why, it just happens.

[Opinion Owner]

Not all of them of course, but many of them.

[jahaims]

Reality

[Daniel707]

Some dudes really are that desperate.

The thing is that many of these relationships start off too good to be true. She’s sweet. She’s loving…. Kind. Tells him things he wants to hear and pretends to be everything he wants.

Then the behaviors come later on in the relationship

[Daniel707]

But some dudes they tolerate it from the start