Other than cheating, what is something that people seem to put up with in relationships that you would never put with up under any circumstances?

[Extraterrestrial1999]

[Theunfadeable]

I find a crazy hustle many men standardly let the women they’re dating take advantage of them. it blows me away how women. Feel so entitled to a man they barely know know to create some lavish experience and jump through all these hoops to get to know them while feeling zero inclination to reciprocate in any meaningful way..

[OneViewpoint]

The opposite of cheating. No sex drive. An asexual woman. I'm getting what I need one way or another. I'll leave or cheat on her or just flat out tell her I'm stepping out to get what she can't give me.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Honestly, so much infringement on one’s individual free time happens in relationships to the point they get offended if you say you need a moment to yourself. I would so much rather not deal with that so I don’t date.

[HollyK21]

Someone adjusting their own boundaries/standards to accommodate their partner’s.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you dodge red flags before they wreck your heart, and maybe flirt a little on the way 😉

Constant emotional manipulation. Gaslighting, silent treatment, guilt-tripping, making you feel “crazy” for having normal needs. That’s worse than ghosting; it’s slow emotional poison.

Also, chronic disrespect. If someone talks down to you, mocks your feelings, or belittles you in public, that’s an instant “I’m out.” No negotiation.

[Vesuvius87]

Abusive and controlling behaviors

[ChasingSophie]

Being told "I'm just not a texter" and accepting that as a complete explanation for three-day silences. Did that one for longer than I'd like to admit.

[Agape93]

Any controlling behavior. Only I decide what I can and cannot do.

[RavVid]

Picking fights to divert from being held accountable.

[OneViewpoint]

@RavVid

Or crying. When she's losing the fight, the tears start flowing on demand. When that fails it's the silent treatment. There is no way she's admitting she's the asshole. 🤣

[RavVid]

@OneViewpoint Oh absolutely. Women act on emotional reasoning and it feels bad if they are held to account. So the argument becomes you have made them feel bad for holding them accountable.

I don't know about you but many women have told me they can turn on the tears at any time.

I think you need to hold them to account in the same way you would train a puppy. I am currently attempting to train a women to take cutlery out of the bowl when she finishes eating. It'll probably take another six months. Even cats are easier to train. They just take 3 months.

[queenofcardio]

Their partner being selfish and inconsiderate.

[Nikki1989]

Men who think they have a right to control their women.

[sage2021]

Being disrespected.

[LiamJHayden]

Violence.