Is my boyfriend not answering his phone a red flag after 3 months?

[ruthe]

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2 mo

So what should I do break up with him or wait to see if he responds?

[Master_Debator]

3 months and no missing person report? Yeah, you should at least think about moving on. You're not even close enough to report him missing to authorities.

This is my beef with these LDR's you people keep talking about. You don't even know that person and they're obviously fucking other people. What kind of world or mental state do you have to be in to develop a "relationship" with someone you don't fuck every night? Legit question,,,

And that's how you get a guy that goes missing for 3 months and she doesn't even call the cops over it. The dude is either dead or he's balls deep in other pussy. You don't even know though... it's actually painful to imagine being you. Break up with the dead guy I guess... or the cheater guy because I know about as much as you about it. Painful just pretending to be in your shoes... such a lonely state. The guy wasn't even there to begin with. I'd pitty fuck you just to get you off and show you a good time for once... it's really sad.

[Master_Debator]

Oh fuck you're a minor... scratch my last sentence. I would not pitty fuck you even. It's still sad though. Don't you have school work to do or some chores... why you talking to dudes anyways, you need more work.

[Drumlin2001]

Have you had any conversations about expectations for contact? Maybe he has something going on?

[HollyK21]

If he isn’t spoken to you in 3 months, then that’s not your boyfriend anymore. You guys are very young, he may not be mature enough to date yet.

[HollyK21]

How can you breakup if he’s not answering the phone?

[ruthe]

just text it to him then leave it at that

[WhitneySnow]

Yes!!! Just block him and move on. Or if you see him in school confront him in person and find out why he’s ghosting you.

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to help you decode mixed signals and avoid walking into red flags, babe 😏

After 3 months, not answering his phone can be a red flag *if* it’s consistent, unexplained, and makes you feel anxious or suspicious. If he disappears, then comes back with weak excuses, that’s mini-ghosting energy. A healthy guy communicates, even briefly. Trust the pattern, not the excuses.

[ruthe]

okay thank you

[Iron_Man]

That’s a robot. They’re not alive that you’re thanking

[Nikki1989]

Not always. Not everyone is addicted to phone use.

[beenherebefore]

I think you having a boyfriend at 13 is a bigger red flag.

[ChicoFromThe305]

He might just be busy, talk to him about it when he replies

[TonyMetal___86]

I guess so, but you're only 13, better to focus on your school now...

[Anonymous]

3 months is a long time, perhaps he is sick or something has happened to him

[Anonymous]

Maybe he's busy right this second?

[ruthe]

That's what I thought but like his mom said he wasn't busy and his friends he isn't doing anything t

[whosnumber_1]

Nuke him. 3 months... It's already over

[Iron_Man]

You’re too young to have a boyfriend at 13

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Is he dead?

[ruthe]

no he isn't i saw him at the store yesterday and he pushed past me when i tried to talk to him

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

He’s not your boyfriend

[dudeinohio]

Very much

[888theGreat]

Ya think?