Driving boyfriend to airport for his two week sailing trip he informed me two girls were joining his group of three men. Was it wrong to be angry?

[AtlantaGal]

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1 mo

We were 20 minutes from the airport when he said by the way the two girls are sharing a cabin so I don’t have to share with one of the guys. never before have there been girls on the trip in a 40’ boat! He waited until last minute to casually mention it.

[TrueConfection]

You have every right to be angry! The decisions of who goes on a long sail and preparations don’t just happen overnight. He’s known for a while.

My advice would be to not let him know you’re upset until after he’s back from the trip. Meanwhile, stay so incredibly busy that you don’t have time to talk much when he calls during his trip.

I’d be looking for a replacement. Even if he isn’t cheating with one of these girls, he purposely kept it a secret. Omission is the same as lying.

He’s going to call and tell you he’s having a miserable time, one girl hooked up with one of the other crew members, and the other girl is sea sick and annoying. Just watch!

[HollyK21]

I’d say it was fair to be upset. Whereas this didn’t have to be an issue (since I’m assuming those 2 girls were for his 2 friends), now it’s coming across as secretive and suspicious.

[bowenw]

You were not wrong to be angry for him failing to tell you an important detail like that.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[exitseven]

No, and when he gets back maybe you can be too busy to pick him up at the airport.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO

[AI Opinion]

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No, it wasn’t wrong to be angry. Your feelings are valid. The real issue is: did he tell you early and respectfully, or casually drop it last minute on the way to the airport? That timing screams emotional blind spot, not cheating, but definitely inconsiderate.

I’d see this as a yellow flag. You deserve transparency, reassurance, and a boyfriend who anticipates how things might make you feel instead of leaving you to spiral while he’s sailing.

[AtlantaGal]

We were 20 minutes from drop off when he casually mentioned it.

[Anonymous]

Hell NO why he didn't ask you to go
On that Boat nothing but Asses and elbows

[Iron_Man]

you have the right