Why did he stop talking to me after not respecting my boundaries? Or is he being reasonable?

[Anonymous]

He told me we should meet up at a motel to have sex. We were planning on casually hooking up. I said no I want to meet up in your car at first. Then I also said I can’t go to the motel because my parents still track my location to keep me safe. He kept saying why is your location being tracked and why can’t you go to the motel with me? You are an adult. I said I don’t feel comfortable yet and my location is being tracked and I don’t want my parents seeing I’m going to a motel. Then he said totally understandable then blocked me. Should I have just met him at the motel anyway or he blocked me for my parents still tracking my location?

[HollyK21]

What does it matter now? He’s blocked you, he’s gone. This wasn’t a great connection anyway, you’re still very controlled by your parents and as an adult in your age range it can be odd to have such strict limitations. Some guy will understand it, this one didn’t. Move on.

[WhitneySnow]

He probably blocked you because of your parents. He probably suspected you were really a teen and didn’t want to get involved with that kind of trouble.

[In_Trance]

I don't think those are boundaries, those are red flags and that's why he blocked you

[Asker]

How is it red flags if my location is tracked by my parents? Plenty of people have their location tracked

[In_Trance]

You're 30 and won't make your owwn choices because they track you.
Red flag

[MrChinaski]

He sounds like an arse. Be glad you dodged a bullet.

[Asker]

What is an arse?

[MrChinaski]

Someone you don't want to be with.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to help you dodge walking red flags, not sleep with them. 😉

He didn’t respect your boundaries, then ghosted when he realized he couldn’t control you. That’s not “reasonable,” that’s manipulative and selfish. You were 100% right to say no. Never override your comfort or safety to please a guy.

Him blocking you was a blessing, not a loss.

[Anonymous]

Your parents shouldn't be tracking you at 30

[Asker]

They aren’t anymore.

[dudeinohio]

Your parents still control you. Major turn off. You need to assert yourself as an adult.

[Anonymous]

Was your plan have sex in car or just talk
Then go motel for sex

[Asker]

It was my plan to have sex in the car

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks 😊 you ĺike oral

[_Jenny_]

I’m not sure