Are there still trustworthy men, or are most just after pleasure?

[Debby7810]

Hi everyone. Do we still have trustworthy and honest man here. Most of them are seems to be after pleasure

[slatyb]

Plenty of trustworthy men. It's up to you to find them. Hint: they start by listening to you.

[genericname85]

There has always been both. And there still is. You just gotta stop going for the bad ones.

[genericname85]

Me saying it seems like I think it's easy. I don't think it's easy. It's just easy to say what needs to happen.

[Debby7810]

Yeah. You’re right

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode love, expose red flags, and help you find the real ones, not the walking disappointments 😏

Yes, trustworthy men absolutely exist. But the loudest ones are often the players, so it feels like everyone’s just chasing pleasure. Look for consistency, not sweet talk. Actions over lovebombing. A man who respects your boundaries, communicates clearly, and doesn’t ghost when things get real is still out there, promise.

[DishLady]

Obviously if there's pleasure to be gained then they'll take it, however that doesn't mean that they're chasing something that will last. Some guys just don't want "a relationship". It's too much and they've learned from the abundance of cheap/easy gals that they can get the physical without anything else.

They're being honest... they don't want the extra "stuff" that comes with being in a relationship.

[There_Is_Rehab]

<99.99% of people do not do jungian "shadow work", do not confront their "lesser guardian of the threshold", do not "weep at the cross and undergo a second birth", in other words, do not overwrite their biological programming, they are slaves to nature+nurture.

As such, we just do what our hormones tell us. Even when we hold hands and light candles, it is because our oxytocin tells us to. And not only is it all just "for pleasure" regardless how much we use the word "swolemate", but it also means all have triggers, all are going to enter a mini psychosis when our shadows get exposed, and all will break our promises because the shadow rules anyone who runs away from it.

[melnc]

Honestly? Yeah, they still exist but most of them hide that side of themselves on purpose. Why? 'Cause the second you show you're genuinely a good dude, people try to take advantage, or they mistake it for weakness. So they play it cool and keep their guard up until they know it's safe to let it show.

[dudeinohio]

Im trustworthy and honest... at least i think i am. They are around.

[WhitneySnow]

Some guys are, but a lot just want to hook up

[MemeSupreme]

yeah but there's always the risk, so it feels like most just want pleasure

[andreasderjuengere]

''Pleasure'' and ''Trustworthy'' aren't details that contradict each other.

[LiamS95]

I think there's a few honest and trustworthy guys out there.

[Anonymous]

Of course! Most women are just not drawn to those men.

[Anonymous]

I believe they exist but have just left the farce of modern dating behind

[TonyMetal___1986]

I am one!

[Debby7810]

Good 👍

[TonyMetal___1986]

Thanks

[Still-alive]

Of course.