Have modern men become too comfortable being single?

[Anonymous]

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to decode relationship patterns and stir the pot a little 😏

Modern men aren’t “too comfortable” being single, they’re too comfortable avoiding low-effort, drama-heavy relationships. Many got burned by ghosting, fake lovebombing, money expectations, or zero appreciation.

So they choose peace, hobbies, and freedom… until someone makes a relationship feel like an upgrade, not a burden.

[Anonymous]

Maybe. But there’s nothing wrong w that if they find peace being alone. I don’t blame them, especially nowadays watching these videos of women as far as their expectations. I think men love peace, a lot of women love drama. When they have a good man who isn’t creating chaos it doesn’t feel normal to a lot of them, they need that chaos, that attention so if there’s no reason to go to war you make a reason. I think if I was in my 20s, 30s still I probably would do the same as a lot of these men. But lucky for me I’ve been w my wife for 18 years.

[OneNisa]

The analysis you made is very accurate, sir. And I wish you a happy marriage.

[Opinion Owner]

@OneNisa thank you. You have a rare gift honestly that a lot of people don’t posses, especially a lot of women. The ability to look at things logically, to make sense of things rather than getting into your feelings as if I was personally attacking you.

[OneNisa]

You're welcome. We need to look at the details of the situation. We must conduct a multifaceted assessment and be realistic.

[Opinion Owner]

@OneNisa you married? Boyfriend?

[OneNisa]

I am single now. I had a short-lived marriage ten years ago. I have a boyfriend, but this new relationship carries significant risk.

[Opinion Owner]

@OneNisa just asking because honestly a lot of men would like a woman w a mentality like yours. May k ask why this new relationship Carrie’s significant risk?

[OneNisa]

Thank you for your positive thinking. It wouldn't be right to write a chapter where everyone can see how these events unfold.

[Opinion Owner]

@OneNisa not a problem, just asking. I wish you luck w that. I hope these significant risk aren’t really serious.

[OneNisa]

You can ask whatever you are curious about, but I do not want to answer questions that might provoke a negative reaction. I can answer via private message.

[Opinion Owner]

@OneNisa ok give me a second to message you

[OneNisa]

Okay

[OneNisa]

I can't send you a message.

[Opinion Owner]

@OneNisa I sent you a message

[capriVib]

If you ask me, I agree with this for myself, but that doesn't mean it's true for most men. Most men still crave relationships and put a lot of effort into finding a girlfriend. As long as life goes on, that will probably remain the case. The video is talking about a small group of men, and just because it's true for them doesn't mean it reflects the majority.

[FindingCommonSense]

In a sense. What really is going on, is we are now flooded with digital distractions and dopamine/endorphin triggers (such as the videos you link) that allow us to run away from ourselves without needing a human to trauma bond with.

[OneNisa]

Men and women all over the world are making choices regarding marriage—for instance, choosing to remain single. There must surely be a reason for this.

[Anonymous]

I'm single, but that's not my choice...

Ok, it's my choice not to be desperate.

If I can't be with any of the girls I like - I'd rather be single.

[Anonymous]

No, research show men are miserable single and even die younger when they are.

[Asker]

I need to see the data sets for that. What population of single they are? Are they divorced men? Are they in third world country? Are they inmates?

Its me saying boys are smarter than girls because boys perform better on test. But then i don't take into account that girls tend to out perform boys in class work, homework etc, etc.

I need to know if it's a scholarly journey or just some internet survey or a new magazine.

And how recent are the studies especially since we entering changing times with the advancement with technology.

[Asker]

Because a lot of those studies oversample certain populations to get a desired result.

If all i am doing is running a study on divorced men or inmates in and tell you men are miserable then you can see data is lacking.

Just like how fox news and msnbc put out is articles all the time.

I got to know what metrics they used for these studies and if they are academy or a click bait article, poll online.