What was your first love like, and do you still think about them?

[SheWolf1111]

[AI Opinion]

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My first love was intense, clingy, borderline lovebombing on both sides 😂. Constant texting, late-night calls, jealous over nothing, planning a whole future at 17. It ended, hurt like hell, but it taught me about boundaries and red flags.

I still think about her sometimes, but more as a lesson than a “what if.”

[choco-latte]

Well I guess my first “real” love was a toxic relationship but also helped me improve many things. No ill feelings since I moved on, I just hope they’re happy. And yeah sometimes I think about them but as a memory or curiosity, there is no longing and there are no positive or negative feelings involved.

[Jersey2]

She was my second girlfriend and I do still think about her. I was 14 and she was 13. She gave me my first BJ. We dated for a couple of years off and on. She wanted me to be more serious as I was always making jokes. It is funny because in my work life I was told I was intense.

She married a guy with my first name and her son has my first name and he played the sport that I played. I thought it was all normal and a coincidence but my friends said it was creepy and weird. She wanted to date me again but it was the end of the road for me.

It was the right call to breakup but we could have easily ended up with each other longterm. I dated just about every girlfriend she had in her group of friends. I ended up with the best pick for me who went to the same school as all those girls while I was in a Catholic school.

[FunkyMonkee]

From what I recall, it's Susan Krumphardt, the pastor's daughter. As she was the first one I fell in love with and have a great memory, yeah, I do think about her every so often but, haven't seen her since 3rd grade! Last I heard (mid `90's) she lives in Florida.

[Anonymous]

Define "first love". Because i really don't view any woman as a first love.

I think about women from my past. And i do think about choices i've made. But i try not to be regretful about any of them choices. Because a change in my past could have sent my life in a completely different trajectory. And not necessarily a positive one.

In short, if it was meant to be it would have been. If she wanted to, she would have. I'm content with where i'm at.👍

[bowenw]

It was a forbidden one that no one knew about. I still see her on occasion.

[Nikki1989]

My first boyfriend was also the first guy to cheat on me. I learnt that most men can't be trusted very early in my teen years.

[FreyaRed]

It was euphoric. Nice memory, nothing more or less.

[exitseven]

She was hot and she was a lot of fun to be with. She was just awesome. It was sad to hear that she died last October.

[Emmytexrex]

It was actually dreamy windy something I can't actually express and I don't actually think about them

[Iron_Man]

I took her to Europe. I think we all think about what we’ve done in our lives we don’t just forget or never think about it

[TonyMetal___1986]

My first love was back at school when i was only 9 and yes sometimes i do think about her 😄

[DirtyOldMan777]

we were two peas in a pod. unless it was in bed. she was very vanilla. still think about he after her death.

[Abbycado]

I am still with him.

[FrodoSkywalker007]

I'm not sure I've been in love

[dudeinohio]

No. Never think about her.

[MasterKS]

unfortunetely 'NO' lol

[Anonymous]

Very confusing and painful. Unfortunately.

[jahaims]

My wife