Girls, how do I know if I’m just her emotional support guy?

[Brokenheart14]

lol I pretty sure I am, accepted the fact she’s clearly no longer interested in any other way. She told me she doesn’t wanna talk to me anymore after she thought I unmatched with her. I was like okay sorry lol. All sudden she calls me last night to say she wanted to talk but it’s never about the issue it’s just about literally nothing. She then goes on to send me reels after she unfollowed me lol. The day before I joked about being pen pals, she said she didn’t know where we’re at or where she’s at , but I feel if she was actually interested she’d still be interesting in actual interaction and not just on the phone all day.

[Nikki1989]

"She then goes on to send me reels after she unfollowed me."

This is when I stopped taking any of this seriously. You are in your 30s; it's time to grow up. Better late than never.

[Brokenheart14]

Lmao, I’m not the one who unfollowed her! 😂

[EmmaMary]

She sounds to be very unstable... I suggest you move on with your life.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[WhitneySnow]

She just wants to be friends

What’s the issue?

[Brokenheart14]

We met on a dating app, I have friends lmao

[WhitneySnow]

I don’t think she’s interested

[Brokenheart14]

Then why does she blow my phone up all day lol she can’t seem to tell me herself

[WhitneySnow]

Good question. And you didn’t mention that earlier.

I still think she just wants to be friends, but if you’re in doubt, ask her straight up

[Brokenheart14]

I do, I get half remarks or she don’t know where we’re at where she’s at lol idek what that means but she’ll Call me 5 times a day send me reels all day and ask me opinions

[WhitneySnow]

She just wants to be friends but doesn’t want to say that because she thinks (correctly) that you’ll stop talking to her if you realize she isn’t interested in you that way

[Brokenheart14]

Why can’t she just say that. When I asked her before she said she can see it being more than friends but she is nervous

[Brokenheart14]

And lately she’s very interested in where I’m going who I’ll be with if I mention another female she’s like oh how is she getting there how is she getting home? Very strange

[WhitneySnow]

She’s breadcrumbing you. Keeping you just interested enough that you’ll keep talking to her.

[Anonymous]

Well, as there is no such thing as an emotional support guy, now you know you're not.

[Brokenheart14]

What am I then? 3 dates then I get I don't know where we’re at or where she’s at but she continuously reaches out after telling me she didn’t wanna talk anymore which I respected then calls me like nothing happened, anytime I try to address the problem she avoids