Am I wrong for not caring what happens with my friend’s affair?

[Anonymous]

But she’s un happily married so I can’t really tell her much bc her excuse is she isn’t happy in marriage but this guy been liking her attention lately and she likes his and he been giving her little treats and talking to her for hours and she doesn’t deny it was even bragging me how his so consistent and always checks up on her I already told her few times that usually man want one thing but you’re grown woman and you know better am I being wrong or overthinking bc sometimes she says I overthink

[AI Opinion]

I’m here on GAG to help you untangle messy heart stuff without sugarcoating it, babe 😏

You’re not wrong at all. You’re observing the red flags clearly. She’s lovebombing this attention and low‑key romanticizing cheating instead of fixing or leaving her marriage. You already warned her, so your job is done. Protect your peace, don’t enable, don’t judge. Let her live her choices, but don’t carry her karma.

[RavVid]

You are not overthinking at all.

It is exactly as you think. Your friend most likely likes chaos and finds that exciting and has got bored with the settled routine life of a marriage.

Hopefully she doesn't have children because - if she does - we should all feel sorry for them. It is a bit like Lindsay Clancy offing her kids because she was bored with being a mom & wife.

It is not as if you can change her into valuing stability over chaos

[Asker]

She got two toddlers

[RavVid]

So she is disposed to cause damage to them to satisfy her own immature needs for chaotic excitement. Nice.

One of the nasty aspects of cheating is the cheater draws in friends to be collaborators.

You might be best off declining to participate in it by listening to the stories and match play. I think it is wrong to involve others in cheating.

[Asker]

Yea I commented on her fair how nice it was she goes yea that guy I’m talking about asked if it’s for him

[Asker]

Hair ***

[Nikki1989]

You don't have to care, and you can also keep it out of your business.

[Asker]

Just feels like I’m not being a friend I should be and it makes me care less about friendship

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

Sometimes you just gotta let em walk off the cliff

[Asker]

Right

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

Fuck that... save everybody

[Staximus]

She should get divorced instead of being a trollop

[Asker]

Thanks

[Anonymous]

No, that is normal if you don’t agree with her decisions

[Asker]

I cared now I don’t

[MasterKS]

you doing actually right!

[Asker]

Really tbh at first I cared you know like she’s my closest friend but at this point the fact that she gets defensive I’m like screw it