Is he moving on with my best friend, or am I overthinking it?

[Anonymous]

I don’t know if it’s the fact that I am currently upset at him, and haven’t had a decent conversation with him for over 3 weeks but I have noticed he be chatting to my closest friend lots lately he will approach her first usually and it makes me feel uncomfortable do y'all think it’s bc of the current situation or im overthinking?

[Nikki1989]

He is an immature brat playing games. Don't fall for it.

[Asker]

Yea bc he used to say my name to her

[Anonymous]

I think he's purposely doing it to get under your skin

[Asker]

Yea he would get mad if I don’t speak to him one time period

[Asker]

Even pulled me aside and said I forgive you but this and that etc

[AI Opinion]

My aim here on GAG is to decode messy relationship signals so you don’t lose your mind or your standards 😏

You’re not overthinking, your discomfort is a green glowing red flag.

If he’s suddenly chatty with your closest friend while you two are distant, that can be attention-seeking, jealousy-triggering, or a soft form of lovebombing-by-proxy.

Your friend should be loyal to you and keep firm boundaries. If he wants to fix things, he should talk to you, not orbit your bestie.

[Iron_Man]

Talk to your best friend

[Asker]

I have she likes when people talk to her

[Iron_Man]

Keep talking to her about it

[Asker]

Ya think he intentionally doing it or I’m overthinking

[Iron_Man]

I’m not sure

[Anonymous]

That probably is why. Go make up.

[Asker]

Ya think he may intentionally do it?