Has someone ever told you that they thought you were out of someone's league?

[Anonymous]

Yes it was about an ex

Yes it was about your current

Yes it was about someone you were interested in

Yes it was about someone who was into you

Nope

A total of 11 votes were cast: 5 girls and 6 guys. See detailed results

[Nuclear_Warhead]

If i was told that then i don't remember it. The only league out of my league is the people believing in "leagues". It contradicts the whole purpose of dating. The same way the whole showing dominance thing is for dumb men trying to attract dumb women. You know what status-based mating animal breeds do? They cheat as soon as someone more dominant is found, and it always, always is found. Thus i separate the "status" and "success" and even "protector" and "strength" things from intimate life. I don't care how popular or unpopular it is in our primitive society. If you date someone based on their league then you will cheat eventually with someone from a league closer matching your target league. Same way that you will cheat if you date the hotness of a hot woman and not the woman that happens to be hot. ㅤ

[WhiteSteve]

Yes. And it was one of the hottest chicks I ever dated. She was a big hit with any of the guys I knew; I was getting all kinds of high-fives and shit when she wasn’t looking😂

Then maybe a year later, we weren’t seeing each other anymore. It had been sort of a casual thing, and then she got back with an ex-boyfriend she had only split with because of distance that was no longer an issue. But we were cool and had parted on good terms. They were in love, so I’d never stand in the way or sulk about that.

Anyhow, she came through the bar I bounced at, she greeted me when she came in, and one of our cocktail waitresses comes up after and asks who she is. I told her she was a girl I used to see, expecting her to be like “You dated HER? DAMN, okay, Steve. I see you.”, lmao. But to my surprise, she said “Really? You can do way better than that.” Thought she was ugly, lmfao. My old friends from college still bring her up, she was a legendary member of the roster. I don’t know if she was just hatin’ or what. I didn’t get it, haha

[Nikki1989]

Thankfully I have never known anyone who believes in the immature 'leagues' myth.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode relationship dynamics and spice them up a bit 😏

Yeah, I’ve heard that before, both about me and about people I’ve coached. Honestly, “out of your league” is usually code for insecurity and fear of rejection. Attraction isn’t a ranking system, it’s chemistry. I’ve seen “leagues” melt the second real connection, kindness, and confidence show up.

[FunkyMonkee]

Yes! In fact, I'm going through that right now!! She thinks I'm too good for her so, she broke up with me over that but, as far as I'm concerned, she''s absolutely pperfect for me!!! She thinks she'll never be the same as my ex's. GOOD!!! I HOPE NOT!!! NONE of my ex's could EVER hold a candle to her!!! Part of the reason none of them are still in my life are because I DON'T WANT them in my life!! A few of them might be cool as casual friends but, I ESPECIALLY want NOTHING to do with my last ex!!
I'm so undyingly loyal to JLB, I barely even look at other girls, anymore!! They just don't interst me, anymore!! A few weeks ago, going through the junk my aunt left behind, I found a Playboy my cousin left when he lived here a decade ago. I paged through the whole thing but never paid much attention to any of the nudes in it! They're just pictures of naked girls to me, anymorre! Big deal!! Who cares? My heart is set on YOU, JLB!!! ONLY YOU, my love!!!
That's right, JLB!!

https://www.youtube.com/embed/cpGA0azFdCs

It's ALL for you!!! Everything I do!! I tell you all the time!! Heaven is a place on Earth with YOU!!! And nothing else matters!!!

[DragonDan444]

What you really learn as you go on in life is that leagues are very subjective. It’s more about compatibility. Let’s be frank….. if someone would reject you if you were one way but accept you another means the real attraction isn’t there. If someone’s checking boxes off…. It’s generally not genuine. It’s one thing to have standards obviously nobody wants to be used. If someone just refuses to work despite being able it’s an issue.

But. If someone just puts themselves out there. Moves on when rejected to find someone new. People would be surprised. At the same time…. If you cannot get past surface level stuff or all you’re able to present is superficial things. Well… what type of person is going to remain interested? Someone

[RedInnocent69]

Yeah, it’s happened both ways, like girls who thought I was slumming with an ex, but it usually has to do more with their insecurities than your preferences

[exitseven]

No, but it was often true.

[Iron_Man]

No never