I rejected her once, but overtime I realized that I love her and I will do everything to get her back. Help?

[Anonymous]

I don't know what to do. I can't sleep nights and I can't eat. I can't have one productive day without thinking about her. I never expected to fall in love. But I will do everything for her.

She seems to flirt back and tells me to call her but sometimes she just goes blank and I don't hear from her. It hurts me so much and I want it to stop.

I thought maybe I should tell her what I feel and just see what she says? Female advice please. Thanks.

[goodlady]

The thing would be to know how has she liked you, and how long since you rejected her. But the fact that you ask her out and she accepted might mean she stills like you, but the thing is that maybe when you guys went out she probably felt you were not that into her and she decided that would hurt to much. Happened to me and just when I thought that was it,it was never going to happened he has gone all the way to show to me he is interested. So just wait patiently and you do not need to tell her you love her, just tell her you think she is beautiful and you would enjoy spending more time together and ask her ofcourse if you would like to. So how did you rejected her, she told you she had feelings for you?

[Asker]

She never told me she had feelings for me until a year later when I asked this question. I only cared about getting laid basically and I told her I'd like to go all the way for the relationship to work. It's OK about 3 weeks ago I told her everything and she said she had no feelings for me. Its like we switched positions entirely. Now I know how she felt. What happened happened. I thought its over but she said she doesn't want to lost contact with me..no idea what that means but I'm trying forget

[harveykinkle]

Why don't you call her?

She's probably posted a question saying, "I keep telling this guy to call me and he doesn't!" :P

Don't start with telling her that you love her, just ask her out to coffee.

[Asker]

We have gone out and she seemed to be really excited. It was great. but a week later it's like it died and she doesn't care about me. doesn't answer my calls or messages. it's been 5 days. I'm nervous beyond anything.