What are some signs that he is trying to make me jealous?

[BrunetteBabe1005]

I like this guy and we have been friends for the past year, but me and him got into a argument. It wasn't brutal or anything it was a mature argument, but I am still not talking to him cause I need more time to think. Well I am not too fond of this girl Kelly (but he doesn't know that, I don't say anything about her) and he has been seeing her and he says he is "just friends" with her, but it's a total lie. Anyways, ever since our argument he has been making posts that include Kelly in it. He mentioned Kelly's name on one of our mutual friends post. He even posted a pic of her with her baby and his baby niece. It's like all of a sudden though, like after we had that argument, he seems to be mentioning Kelly more often.

He's making it a point to post about her on Facebook. He's over doing it in a way. Like with those stupid cartoon Bitstrip things, lol! to me that just shows he has a motive, cause who does that? Like when I had a boyfriend I didn't feel the need to display us and everything we did on Facebook. He even changed his Instagram Profile Pic to him and Kelly. It's like they are dating now, but it's just weird cause it seems like after that argument we had he's doing this. So is this a sign of jealousy? Do guys do this? Does he think it will make me jealous enough to call him? What are signs to look for that a guy is trying to make a girl jealous? Thank you everyone!

[HandsomeRaj]

1. This behavior sure is triggered by your argument with him

2. I sure hope he really likes her and they have something going (with due respects to your sentiment) cause if he's tagging her everywhere just to make you jealous it's inhuman to play with her (or anyone's) feelings. That ofcourse unless he has already taken her into confidence.

3. I'd think he is probably trying to impress upon you that she's important to him (even if he means you are his friend and stay that way)

4. Even if they do have something going on between them, it's for them to keep it private or make it public, you should respect that young lady :) - they may have their reasons for keeping it that way

5. His 'overdoing' it (which I'd say he is from the descriptions provided) coinciding with the debate between you and him makes it look like he's using a double edged sword which generally winds up slicing on both the sides - I hope he doesn't do that or intend it that way.

6. These most certainly seem like signs of a guy trying to make a girl jealous but like I said it could be a double edged sword

[Chopperjo1]

Everything you said is that, but he is going crazy with all this. He better watch out he's gonna end up pushing you away for good, if never went to that kind of extreme to get a rise out of a girl

I would go silent big time reverse the game if you have to, block him from F/B an every way you can. Put the ball in your court for awhile

Don't let him drive you crazy

Hope this helps you

Goodluck

[BrunetteBabe1005]

Oh yeah, I am NOT speaking to him! This is childish and immature behavior and I am not into that, lol! If anything he is just pushing me away, cause it just shows how immature and childish he is. I;m just not giving a reaction, cause I am showing him it doesn't bother me. Thank you for commenting! Thanks for the insight, cause I am just not sure on what ways guys will do to make a girl jealous, haha! But thanks! :)

[Hans222]

Just ask him if the baby is his too... this is not normal.

It's no problem that he has friends, not even if they're girls. But posting pics of him and her on Facebook as if they were a couple, is a bridge too far.

Send him a mail with your picture for his Facebook, see if he posts it!

[BrunetteBabe1005]

I know it's not his baby, cause I met his baby niece, and his sister. I sent him pics of me in a joking way like one time he left his hoodie at my house and I took a pic of me in it and I said "Notice anything?" He never posted that pic. But I am just curious if it sounds like he's trying to make me jealous or not? lol! Thanks for commenting! :)

[dave4u]

If he's telling you about his girl "friends". If he's ignoring you a lot

[BrunetteBabe1005]

Yeah he still hasn't contacted me, so I can tell he's ignoring me. But he's just a douche, lol! Thanks! :)

[dave4u]

Why do you assume because he ignores you, that he's a douche. Maybe he's busy or something. You shouldn't prejudge, idiot

[BrunetteBabe1005]

Ummm...Geez! I guess I have to explain everything beforehand! Well when our argument ensued, he seemed like he didn't care that he hurt me, and he is posting all of these things on Facebook about this girl Kelly. Wheather it's to make me jealous or not, he's being a douche bag. cause he seems to not care, and trust me he's not busy. Plus he isn't calling me and since he's the one that started the argument and was rude then I feel he should be the one to call me. So that is why I said

[BrunetteBabe1005]

"He's a douche" and I posted this question to see what people think, but I highly doubt it's because he's busy, I just think he wants me to contact him cause he's trying to make me jealous and such, and he wants to know I guess if I got to him. It's not "prejudging" He is my guy friend, and I know him, that is why he is still my guy friend cause he is known for being a douche bag. Trust me, I am not the type that judges people. So you don't have to be rude!

[Cowboy6666]

Simple if a boy praises in front of you of another girl.